This is so disheartening what Mangago has turned out to be. By sharing information I am blocked and called a bot because it differed from their views.
https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/16200755/
I'm sorry they feel that way. However, resorting to insults and name-calling doesn't contribute to a productive conversation. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions and perspectives, and it's important to respect that diversity, even if we disagree. Let's strive for more respectful dialogue in the future
There are 4 [I love morning Diamonds aka me] profiles and that is 4 different people.
There are two [Safety Sentinel] and that is two different people.
There are two [Aloha] and that is two different people.
A cyberstalker is impersonating [I love Morning Diamonds aka me], [Safety Sentiel], and [Aloha]. While there are more targets and accounts impersonating others. In this that is 6 people total while there are 8 profiles.
The cyberstalkers are spreading false information or rumors to tarnish the real one's reputation. If it is malicious or off the wall it is most likely a cyberstalker. If it is explaining and trying to have a real conversation it is the real ones or the one defending the real one.
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Safety Sentinel profiles.
Safety Sentinel was Safety Advocate and ze changed their name to Safety Sentinel the cyberstalker copied them as they copied Safety Advocate.
https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/16081643/
Cyberstalker impersonating Safety Sentinel, https://www.mangago.zone/home/people/3704977/home/
Join on February 22, 2024 focused on spreading false information or rumors to tarnish Safety Sentinel, TM, and Morning Diamonds rep.
They made the first comment to harm their targets pretending to be them.
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The real Safety Sentinel https://www.mangago.zone/home/people/3721355/home/
March 5, 2024 advocating for awareness of cyberstalking and online harassment.
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The morning diamonds.
1. The real one https://www.mangago.zone/home/people/3526299/home/ and the real one has not responded for about 3 weeks now.
Join on:
October 7, 2023
2. The one defending the real one. https://www.mangago.zone/home/people/3699209/home/ Join on: February 17, 2024
3. A cyberstalker https://www.mangago.zone/home/people/3703695/home/ Join on: February 21, 2024 This cyberstalker has many accounts impersonating their targets.
4. Another cyberstalker https://www.mangago.zone/home/people/3690382/home/ February 10, 2024
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Aloha.
Mine: https://www.mangago.zone/home/people/3699425/home/ Join on: February 17, 2024
The cyberstalker: https://www.mangago.zone/home/people/3704978/home/ Join on: February 22, 2024
8 accounts. 6 people. There are more accounts.
Yes fool. We know about all your alt accounts AND WE ALSO KNOW that you are the evil clown controlling all of them. Must suck to keep up with all the juggling act of dozens of alt accounts while holding down a full time job. Or wait, perhaps you don't have a full time job like the rest of us? Wouldn't surprise me with all the time you clearly have in your hands. For chrissakes, go get a real job. OK?
It's disheartening to see such baseless accusations and personal attacks. I can assure you that we not controlling all those alt accounts, nor do we have any malicious intentions. Let's try to maintain a respectful tone and focus on constructive discussion rather than resorting to unfounded accusations and insults
(reposting because my other was removed)
I am the real aloha and I have a cyberstalker impersonating me. They and others will probably come here to gaslight you about their targets.
This is a follow up on the same problem.. https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/15432686/
I am sharing with you someone's else topic
https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/15662727/
Subject:"Beware of Baileybot, This could happen to you."
Body:
This https://www.mangago.zone/home/people/3554524/ is a sockpuppet for the cyberstalkers that have been gaslighting the page for months and impersonating a few users.
She just called someone else a pedophile again and they have not talked to each other. He is not a pedophile.
At the beginning of the month she wrote the real Morning Diamonds about his name. She had two comments and he had three comments. He blocked her without DMing her.
She came back saying she was minor and he asked for pictures in DM. What happen is the impersonator of him emailed her to frame him. He is not a pedophile. He has defended many people on this page. He is a good person. A few days later they added grooming. They kept changing her age to: 13, 14 and 16.
Morning Diamonds has asked her to leave him alone March the 4th. She is still harassing us. After a point I avoided talking to her and she does not take the hint. She is stalking us
We are not talking to her and she keeps trying to engage with us. She is now trying to make 10 or more people the same person on misspelled words that is copied and pasted.
You know autocorrection is not that smart. Also, She keep self projecting her feelings on to us. We are not mad with the same gaslighting over weeks. We are disappointed in they and how bore they are to make baseless claims on their targets and then pretend they are the victims. They never been the victims. She is not a victim.
https://www.mangago.zone/home/photo/34570590/
https://www.mangago.zone/home/photo/34570607/
One of these pictures you will see them say I DMed her for pictures. I blocked her before she knew about me. I think it is bc they want me to be MD. They are obsessed with MD. I am not a pedophile. On that note two of the cyberstalkers impersonating their targets have claimed to be pedophiles. https://www.mangago.zone/home/album/383191/
https://www.mangago.zone/home/people/3690382/home/ (who is BaileyBot too) admitted to being a pedophile
https://www.mangago.zone/home/people/3703695/home/ admitted to being a pedophile
Both said it a few times on different topics.
Help! We have pedophiles cyberstalking us."
End
Baileybot refute (her link is in topic) and this was made https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/15662873/ They think it is funny to call someone a pedo and degrade them. They think it is funny to gaslight them as they victim-blame them. They are not talking about their victims. They don't even know their victims.
Their victims helps others. They defended me. They share facts. They never harassed anyone. They are being harassed because the haters want Jinx to be only hate. The haters are trying to force them off the page or force them to have their opinions. They have gone through such lengths to force them off the page. They are not trolls. They are cyberstalkers that are gaslighting their own reality. They are trying frame others. That is how sick they are.
This is my topic https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/15663380/
Why? They can do this to anyone at anytime. This is WARNING for others to stay clear of the cyberstalkers who will not stop. They have been asked many times. This is me taking a stand for them to stop. Don't you get it? They are harassing us and pretending like we are doing. You can't talk on Jinx because of them. TM and MD can't make a comment or topic without them dog piling them. Baileybot can accuse anyone and set them up as she did us.
This is harassment. Warning people is what you do. This is not a game. This is not funny. And why don't you go say this to them when they bring it out? Stop going after the victims. Cyberstalking someone is never okay.
This is not Jinx drama. This is not about Jinx. Way to go to deflect the real issue. I will keep posting this because what is happening is dead wrong. I can't believe you would even say that. What is happening on Jinx is serious and it is harassment. They are breaking the laws. Mind your business.
Your post gave me the distinct impression of someone stressing that they're being personated. Which is why I asked who are you because that negates my original assumption about the post.
That person had another impression and decided to be rude about it because they feel the need to be like that.
Genuinely, this is a yaoi porn website. If someone gets blocked because of a stupid rumour on a yaoi porn website, so be it. idgaf as to what porn addicts think of me and I do believe that is the general consensus. No one knows you. No one is going to remember that you might be a pedo, so once again, who are you, or better yet, who is anyone here?
And I do think it would be better to have made this an experience than to post it under a manga comment section, because it's flooding the comment section and people are annoyed by it. Even if the baileybot is doing it, don't argue in the comment section. I know you linked a topic, but this is a comment section for jinx. Let the dumbasses be dumbasses no one cares all that much. If someone is seriously feeling stressed from a porn website they should reconsider their priorities in life.
I did not see this or your other comment. "just ignore them, they'll eventually give up. they live off of people giving a shit about who they are. " I think it is something more here. They are trying to force them off the page.
My post was not just my words and the other one is not being impersonated at the moment. "And I do think it would be better to have made this an experience than to post it under a manga comment section," Huh? Do you mean this post? I was posting to where one of the harassers posted before about this situation. It has been flooding the comment section for over a month. We can't talk to people or share things without the flood of impersonators. This is not a porn site. There are many stories here that are not about sex. This is not from the stories. While you give some good advice, your last sentence just dismisses cyberstalking.
It is not about me but to protect others who could go through this. They could do this to someone and cause lots of damage to them.
It is really hard to make a sound cyberstalking argument WHEN YOUR ACCOUNT IS A REMAKE OF SOMEONE ELSE'S YOU IDIOT.
Look, I'm pretty sure whoever the hell is levi something did something really terrible, but you do realize that by making a fake account of Levi's acc you just became part of the problem?
You should have tried to use your OG account because these people are leveraging the fact that Aloha is a fake account originally made to pretend to be Levi. Dude. I don't know why you would do this, if this Levi lerson is that annoying just igbore them. It's not your problem to deal w/people like that.
And you're seriously taking this too far. Like, I know a lot people in the comment section say it in a really rude way, but people aren't going to be offended by fake accounts. They think it's funny. You have to let go of this. This is an illegal site, you need to get it through your head that it's not that big of a deal as long as it doesn't have irl repercussions.
Look, think about it this way, will this affect your ability to get a job? to get into uni? no, it doesn't. Those are the things that matter in life, not whether or not you have to delete your account on a website that pirates manga. Most of the people on this site know that. There are people with others creating alt accounts and they'll laugh and joke about it because it's an easy proof with the date.
I get that you're fed up and that you're concerned, but it's not as big of a deal as you're thinking. Just leave them alone and live your lifen Just block all of them. You're bordering the edge of being annoying and people don't really care.
Just read your manga happily. Change your name and icon and just live your life. I doubt the trolls will follow you.
(And this is absolutely at least 70% a porn site if 70% of the people who come here read porn.)
I have seen Levi supporting the impersonating and harassment of their targets. They gaslight them like crazy. I thought if she knew how it felt she would try to stop it. She only gaslighted me more and I changed my name to Aloha and changed to a flower, this is not a remake of her account. I changed to my own. They impersonated me. If I change they will impersonate me again.
They change every time their targets change. They are not trolls. They are cyberstalkers. They are not doing this for a laugh either. Not many have laughed at them. The one impersonating me has an older creation date.
(Yaoi is not porn. Go to a porn site and will see the difference).
Look. Just delete all your alts and continue with life. If they start annoying your OG account THEN you have something you can argue with. This has dragged on way too long and it's starting to affect random people on this site. Just leave it be.
You're focusing on everything that isn't important. The point- The point is that no one knows who you are, no one gives a shit, and you're causing a disturbance. You look bad. Your advice isn't going anywhere. You seem like the irrational one.
Just let it go for now and wait for when you have some thing more definite with an OG account. You can even bait them if you want.
I'm trying to help you here, so don't get so offended when I say you're driving yourself into a corner.
Look. I'm telling you, that is a stupid strategy. You don't kill a murderer to make them feel regret. You don't steal from a thief. Levi doesn't care, and I'm telling you, Levi is using the fact that you're making alt accounts against you so stop and delete them.
Just change this account all over again or make a new one. Seriously. They're badgering you and you're getting stressed over something has a simple solution. let it go. If you want to catch them or stop them or prove they're pieces of shit, you need evidence they're pretending to be you on an account that isn't a remake. You won't get any where with this account or any other alt. Seriously.
(And yaoi is porn. There's no reason to add in sex scenes they just do. It's porn with plot, aka PORN with plot, therefore porn)
Oh my god. Listen. I'm writing to this person to back off from going batshit insane about someone making an alt to which they responded to this by making an alt to make that person feel bad. which is stupid. Obviously.
I didn't mean it clearly. It's for emphasis that this site has a ton of yaoi porn and OP is having an cyberstalking crisis for some reason on a site that has a ton of yaoi porn.
Yes, this site has other manga --- considering that's most of what I read, wouldn't it make more sense that I know and that I wrote it to emphasize it? Even considering the context, wouldn't it make more sense that I wrote that because I wanted to show how stupid it is for them to argue about this for more than half a year and to get them to stop because it's flooding the comments?
Does no one know the definition of a hyperbole? (/TДT)/
(╯°Д °)╯╧╧ It's totally fine for someone to call someone a dumbass or a motherfucker or a lying asshole and be like, ah we're bros. I say that this site is a yaoi porn site and suddenly it's taken literally huh? That's what people want to correct people on. It's ok to be rude, to swear, to be vulgar, but it's not alright to exaggerate?
I'm not mad at you, I'm just confused as to how we've deevolved into this shit storm where we only need semantics and specificity when it's beneficial. At least be consistency debaucherous. But no, we're beyond the point of regular respoect and into the domain where we can just immediately accuse everyone of thinking this way or that way without thinking ourselves.
Oh, but you wrote in a way that was confusing. Of course this is the perfect time to pretend to be knowledgeless. It's the perfect time to slip on an unsuspecting facade of misunderstanding, begging for apologies or corrections because then they seem smart. Hey, look here's a person who, when taken out of context said something technically wrong. Of course, this isn't hypocrisy, it's group management where we correct everything is wrong but are allowed to loosen our lips when it suits us.
(╯°Д °)╯╧╧ it's not even online. It's seeped into the pores of society. The meat of the matter, the main idea, that is the point - for which we are arguing on. What balance we must have if we were to walk across public agreed sense (which may not be sensible at times) and vulgarity.
(╯°Д °)╯╧╧ tldr: I'm tired.
And I'm saying you're a public disturbance at this point because it's FLOODING THE COMMENT SECTION KF A MANGA THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS.
No one supports you. No one will side with you. No one is being warned. You're not doing anything helpful. Aka, you're being a public disturbance. Better to start over than continue on a dead branch.
Do you want to know why people are saying you're annoying? It's because you gave the other side leverage against you. They think you're insane because you're so seriius about something most people don't understand. Look, if you aren't going to let it go, then find more evidence. You also need to start clean and away from alts.
Just look, all of this isn't going to do anything. You need something long term if you want to get anything done about it. Your fake alts are making people confused.
Porn and smut are synonymous... Smut is just written porn.
You are trying to make me feel isolated and I know many supports me. I know people are siding with me. I am warning people. I am not being a public disturbance. It is not a dead branch. Smut and Porn are different. Yaoi is not porn.
I do understand you give me some good advice but you are also gaslighting me. I have two accounts and I made this my account. Most of the targets only have one or two accounts. So.. yeah. I am going to block you now.
One of them tried to frame me and MD. They could frame anyone including you. I have no power over others that is flooding a manga that has nothing to do with this. This is a question area.
I am the real aloha and I have a cyberstalker impersonating me. They and others will probably come here to gaslight you about their targets.
This is a follow up on the same problem.. https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/15432686/
I am sharing with you someone's else topic
https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/15662727/
Subject:"Beware of Baileybot, This could happen to you."
Body:
This https://www.mangago.zone/home/people/3554524/ is a sockpuppet for the cyberstalkers that have been gaslighting the page for months and impersonating a few users.
She just called someone else a pedophile again and they have not talked to each other. He is not a pedophile.
At the beginning of the month she wrote the real Morning Diamonds about his name. She had two comments and he had three comments. He blocked her without DMing her.
She came back saying she was minor and he asked for pictures in DM. What happen is the impersonator of him emailed her to frame him. He is not a pedophile. He has defended many people on this page. He is a good person. A few days later they added grooming. They kept changing her age to: 13, 14 and 16.
Morning Diamonds has asked her to leave him alone March the 4th. She is still harassing us. After a point I avoided talking to her and she does not take the hint. She is stalking us
We are not talking to her and she keeps trying to engage with us. She is now trying to make 10 or more people the same person on misspelled words that is copied and pasted.
You know autocorrection is not that smart. Also, She keep self projecting her feelings on to us. We are not mad with the same gaslighting over weeks. We are disappointed in they and how bore they are to make baseless claims on their targets and then pretend they are the victims. They never been the victims. She is not a victim.
https://www.mangago.zone/home/photo/34570590/
https://www.mangago.zone/home/photo/34570607/
One of these pictures you will see them say I DMed her for pictures. I blocked her before she knew about me. I think it is bc they want me to be MD. They are obsessed with MD. I am not a pedophile. On that note two of the cyberstalkers impersonating their targets have claimed to be pedophiles. https://www.mangago.zone/home/album/383191/
https://www.mangago.zone/home/people/3690382/home/ (who is BaileyBot too) admitted to being a pedophile
https://www.mangago.zone/home/people/3703695/home/ admitted to being a pedophile
Both said it a few times on different topics.
Help! We have pedophiles cyberstalking us."
End
Baileybot refute (her link is in topic) and this was made https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/15662873/ They think it is funny to call someone a pedo and degrade them. They think it is funny to gaslight them as they victim-blame them. They are not talking about their victims. They don't even know their victims.
Their victims helps others. They defended me. They share facts. They never harassed anyone. They are being harassed because the haters want Jinx to be only hate. The haters are trying to force them off the page or force them to have their opinions. They have gone through such lengths to force them off the page. They are not trolls. They are cyberstalkers that are gaslighting their own reality. They are trying frame others. That is how sick they are.
This is my topic https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/15663380/
https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/16642521/
"I know this is just a fictional story and all but I see people in the comments having trouble with understanding consent so, here we go:
Would Dan agree to have sex with JK if he did have a choice and wasn't desperately in need of money? NO!
Consent is supposed to be enthusiastic and dynamic and Dan's case is the opposite. He dreads having sex with JK and constantly asks him to stop.
So, under normal circumstances, where the two of them would have stood on equal ground and the power dynamic between them was the same, Dan wouldn't have agreed to sex and he would've probably reported JK for sexual harassment.
Even if that wasn't the case, Dan didn't agree to be abused and humiliated so brutally and violently, nothing consensual is going on here, JK is just using Dan's weakness to exploit him. "
Yes. it is a fictional story. As my friend pointed out no one was talking about Dan and consent recently, this was an offbeat reply.
Yes, people have troubles understanding consent and rape. Consent is not black and white. Consent is complex and complicated. This shows in Jinx.
"Would Dan agree to have sex with JK if he did have a choice and wasn't desperately in need of money? " Dan had a choice. We cannot claim Dan would said no. If we say he would say no that will undermine the story and Dan's character.
Consent is suppose to be enthusiastic and dynamic but can we say this is opposite for Dan? Dan does not " dreads having sex with JK and constantly asks him to stop."
That undermines the story and the story does not back this up.
"So, under normal circumstances, where the two of them would have stood on equal ground and the power dynamic between them was the same, Dan wouldn't have agreed to sex and he would've probably reported JK for sexual harassment."
We cannot claim that. Also, if Dan wouldn't have agreed. He couldn't report Jk for sexual harassment. When Jk asked, Dan said no then JK was on the phone and calling someone else. There would be nothing to report.
Dan didn't agree to be abused and humiliated, But we never not seen something so brutal or violent. Jaekyung is rough. He likes rough sex. This story at parts is non-con but, underad what non-con means. There are some consensual elements here. JK never exploit Dan's weakness.
You can tell a biased opinion vs the real story.
You just ignore the fact that he pays for sex? Like if Dan didn't accept the money none of this would happen no one cares he that he need the money no one's gonna do charity without getting anything in return
I understand your comment. I understand you are asking about how Jaekyung pays for sex. Which is wrong and prostitution. I don't understand why you are saying this to this comment. I don't think she is ignoring it but rather it does not relate.
I think the point was missed. we can not say Dan would had said no if he didn't needed money.
Prostitute exist you know but Why would Dan accept his offer if he didn't need the money ?
oh you are talking about " There would be nothing to report." The original topic said sexual harassment. She was saying there will no sexual harassment to report via Dan. Not the other ukes.
if Dan said no and JK just moved on, there might not be grounds for a formal complaint or legal action.
Dan can report Jaekyung wanted transactional sex. but he would have no evidence and it a man in debt needed money who is accusing a famous rich athlete of wanting transactional sex.
Dan likes him.. Read chapter 1. Then chapter 41?
chapter 41 is correct. I can point out other chapters
The op to the other topic ( https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/16642521/) said
"Don't engage with them. This is the same person with mutiple account just trolling and saying a whole lot of nothing using chatgpt. Just block or ignore them."
That is a lie. We are not the same people. They are talking about the wrong group. What they said fits the aggressors beside the trolling comment, No one is trolling here. the aggresssors claim they are trolling but they are harassing others.
We are saying a lot and they feel threat. It is sad what people will do when they know their opinions are wrong. They can't counter what was said by my friends they have to pretend they said nothing.
We both know Green was saying if Dan didn’t accept the money nothing would happen for Dan to report. So She didn’t ignore anything but was accused of overlooking JK which her comment had nothing to do with JK’s previous sex “relationships”.
Many people do charity and get nothing in return.
It is odd you said it was prostitution and the message to this was prostitution exists you know.
Those two replies to Green and you were weird.
I am going to post what I said to the other topic which they could not counter anything I said.
People with biases will believe lies and praise those who write opinions that match their own instead of the real story.
Despite presenting facts to counter the misinformation, I was accused of being a bot and blocked because they couldn't counter my points or those of my friends. It's sad to see lies being praised just because they align with certain biases.
1. Understanding Consent and Dan's Situation: It’s true that consent should be enthusiastic and given freely. However, Dan’s situation is complex. While it’s clear that Dan is in a difficult position due to his financial desperation, it's also important to consider his emotional state and personal history. Dan is a survivor of sexual abuse, which profoundly affects his relationship with sex. This background makes his situation different from a straightforward case of consent. Which is the main argument in the topic that cannot hold water to this story as it dismisses most of the facts of the story.
2. Dan’s Feelings for Jaekyung: The comment seems to overlook that Dan has a complicated emotional attachment to Jaekyung. Despite his financial desperation, Dan’s feelings for Jaekyung play a significant role in his decisions and actions. This emotional dynamic adds layers to their interactions, which might not be immediately obvious but are crucial to understanding the full picture.
3. Dan’s Choices and Agency: While Dan’s choices are influenced by his need for money, it’s also important to recognize that he does have a degree of agency in his decisions. The narrative explores how his personal feelings and past trauma intersect with his current situation, making his responses to Jaekyung more nuanced than simply a matter of exploitation.
4. Misinterpretation of Abuse and Exploitation: The comment suggests that Jaekyung is purely exploiting Dan, but this view might oversimplify the complexities of their relationship. Jaekyung’s actions are indeed problematic, but the story portrays a more intricate interplay of power, emotional connection, and personal history. The dynamics between Dan and Jaekyung are intended to be explored deeply rather than viewed in black-and-white terms.
Understanding these nuances can provide a more balanced perspective on the characters and their interactions. The story delves into complex issues of consent, power dynamics, and personal history, and it’s important to consider these factors when discussing their implications.
The main topic dismisses many aspects of the story to make a biased statement rather than trying to understand the story and characters. Also, this topic hasn’t been mentioned in the last few pages. It is odd to address something that is not being addressed like it has been currently happening.
chapter 1
- dan witnesses jaekyung uncontrollably beat the shit outta someone off the bat in ch. 1, contributing to preexisting fear of physical violence from him. granted though this was not jaekyung’s intention (debatable honestly) and does also count towards why dan could’ve/should’ve known to say no to the agreement
- jaekyung is just overall physically intimidating whether he’s trying to be or not. this isn’t his fault but there’s no question that he uses this to try to get his way in situations
- uh. dan was hired as a pt. not even by jaekyung himself but by his manager? ch. 1
- dan is there for the conversation about jaekyung having knocked the previous pt out. point for he should’ve/could’ve left earlier, but also point for jaekyung (inadvertently here, granted) using threats of physical violence to intimidate, which could contribute to a coerced yes later
- dan comes to the conclusion that if he doesn’t do well, he will have physical violence used against him. jaekyung’s manager basically confirms this saying as long as dan doesn’t do anything to get on his nerves, he’ll be fine
- dan has a history of being physically abused, as such he will do anything he can to avoid it happening. that said jaekyung doesn’t know about this at this point (ch. 1)
- personally this…i feel like jaekyung picks out dan as his next target precisely because he’s a “little wimp” as he describes him after that first sesh
- as stated before dan is having to work multiple jobs to maintain himself which again highlights the sheer power differential between these two (can i clarify and say—jaekyung is not solely responsible for the sex being ultimately nonconsenual if that makes sense and i feel like this is what i was really trying to argue. we’ll see)
- dan is just so. self-blaming nothing to do with jaekyung yet but brother
- dan’s job prospects got fucked because of his previous boss, who was caught sexually assaulting him, but ended up getting him fired and spreading rumors about him. this contributes further to how desperate dan’s situation is hence why he is not given a meaningful choice (again, not ALL jaekyang’s fault)
- dan can’t afford to up and move somewhere where he might have better prospects idk how many times ill list down “he doesn’t have a real choice because he’s poor not because of jaekyung specifically although jaekyung doesn’t help”
- dan feeling unsafe everywhere. nothing to necessarily do with anything yet just an interesting detail
- dan is/would’ve been stuck between a rock and a hard place, getting beaten up by the loan sharks or getting raped or assaulted or whatever by jaekyung
- jaekyung lies to dan about his treatment to lure him to his appointment i guess you can argue dan should’ve used his common sense here but that feels victim blamey and if we can critique dan for lying about his experience we can certainly critique jaekyung for lying about why he was calling dan to his house
- dan says no to going to the apartment, jaekyung offers him more money for him to go (bribery more than coercion though lol but…considering that this is kind of a trap,)
chapter 2
- jaekyung…had someone else he was fucking already? who was willing? why switch to dan all of a sudden?
- dan again witnesses jaekyung use an disproportionate amount of physical violence (slamming guy’s head into a wall) AND a death threat against someone because of a slight provocation. again, this counts towards both “dan should’ve known better and left” and “dan likely (rightly) felt too intimidated to say no”
- jaekyung definitely does find dan physically attractive but we still don’t know why he decided to quit his previous partner for him
- jaekyung does try to get a vibe check on what dan might think/how he might feel about being propositioned
- the jinx in and of itself is a fundamentally fucking stupid plot device so let’s start there. we don’t know if it’s real or not we don’t get any real explanation for it other than that it exists. it exists to justify jaekyung’s sex-pesty behavior though, that’s for sure. you can interpret it as also another method of coercion—what he’s saying is that if he loses, it will have been dan’s fault. this of course puts a disproportionate amount of pressure on dan but maybe im getting ahead of myself
- jaekyung physically grabs dan. nothing violent yet though but this is yknow. erm
- jaekyung does indeed give dan the choice to leave if he doesn’t want to have sex But the added consequence is no money. as noted before this guy lied in the first place. also note the language use: “guess you don’t **need** that five grand after all” just…interesting
- again, dan’s circumstances make his yes not a meaningful yes. that isn’t specifically entirely jaekyung’s fault but ***jaekyung does not help.***
chapter 3
ch. 3
- jaekyung does indeed ask if dan has been with a man before. he follows up with “i suppose it doesn’t actually matter.” now again dan should’ve been honest he is responsible for that but also, jaekyung, if he actually gave a fuck, wouldn’t just assume things—especially with the non-answer dan gives, the hesitance he shows
- dan did just lie though. stupid bitch. you could say this counts against him but you could also attribute his feeling of having to lie to not only his own personal psychology but, again, the various shows of violence and intimidation jaekyung had performed beforehand
- jaekyung uses physical force on dan to get him out of the shower and throw him onto the bed after he takes too long in the shower. again dan ain’t sign up for allat. again jaekyung could’ve/should’ve checked in properly here but whatever it’s his character
- threatens to break dan’s ankle when he struggles and asks him to wait
- I GET THIS IS FANTASY BUT I DON’T CARE HOW EXPERIENCED SOMEONE IS YOU DO NOT SHOVE A COCK UP THEIR ASS NO PREP ESPECIALLY NOT A MONSTER COCK. THIS GUY JUST WANTED TO HURT HIM. “DISCOMFORT” DURING SEX MY ASS? NO PUN INTENDED?
- threatens violence again (“if you waste my time like that last little bitch, don’t expect to be sent home safe and sound”) when dan says he can’t actually go through with the sex, prompting dan to think of. the guy getting his face smashed into a wall.
- dan explicitly asks jaekyung “then how do i do this? if you just put it in, i think i’ll tear.” personally i once again think that this should have been a red flag to anyone who cares about the virginal status of their partner but. ok
- jaekyung says “last chance, no more mr. nice guy after this” which is another threat/intimidation tactic. he does tell dan to leave if he can’t handle prep. but this followed after the threat of getting his shit rocked if he’s too slow.
- do you really read all this and then read dan going “well i asked for it” and think “yep he sure did!” and not feel bad. at all. and like something isn’t right here.
- again jaekyung uses physical force on dan when he’s going too slow for his liking
- dan sure does ask for jaekyung to fuck his ass. after being roughly fingered
- dan tells jaekyung that it hurts and asks jaekyung to stop, jaekyung does not stop. jaekyung in fact proceeds to shove dan’s head into the mattress and say, “keep testing my patience, and i’ll smash your head in” followed by “just shut up and take it”
chapter 4
- dan tries to crawl away from jaekyung, jaekyung slams into him
- very hard pressed to read jaekyung’s response here as being one of concern/sympathy (“what the, are you crying? over that? i barely even put it in!”) it is if anything belittling. again dan is responsible for being honest but jaekyung is responsible for creating a space where he feels safe to be honest. besides that, jaekyung would’ve actually asked if he was okay instead of pounding into him
- jaekyung pounds into him, explicitly saying that he likes seeing dan cry, and that the tears won’t make him go easy on him
- jaekyung does…”check in” on dan, dan foolishly says he can take it.
- speaking of dan lying, when jaekyung says he’s had a bunch of cocks before, dan says that isn’t the case
- dan asks jaekyung to be gentler, jaekyung tells him to shut up and then goes harder and even covers his mouth so y’know even if he wanted to say no he couldn’t that’s very consensual to me
several different websites define rape, legally, to involve nonconsensual sexual intercourse (penetration) being done to another person by means of force—force being psychological coercion, threats, use of drugs, and/or use of physical force.
several websites define sexual assault (if/when there is a distinction between it and rape) as generally making contact with someone’s intimate body parts without their consent.
given that jaekyung used deception and intimidation (coercion) before if not also throughout their first interaction with one another, given that jaekyung repeatedly threatened physical violence and also used physical violence on dan, given that jaekyung penetrated dan, and given that dan repeatedly expressed, physically and verbally, his non-consent to jaekyung, only to have them all completely ignored if not responded to with even more threats and/or uses of physical violence—why would jaekyung’s actions against dan in at least these very first four chapters not fall under even the legal definition of rape?
you see, your friend PQ blocked me, so i felt that i should reach out to their friends. i just wanted to ask one more time, given all of this evidence, why they thought that dan was not raped?