
why does uncle pan have to be so mean? If he don't want to be with red haired, just let him go, don't keep him with you beging for your love and attention.

Uncle Pan has expressed time and time again that he isn't serious and he has rejected redhead's advances many times, at that point only someone who's very determined or stubborn would stay. He never claimed to be serious about him, never promised anything, personaly I don't think he's doing anything wrong at all.

Also you have to consider redhead's past lol, if a rich, arrogant boy who's always playing around with girls came up to you, who's a guy and is much older claiming that he's in love with you, would you as a mature adult believe that right away? Naaah, the best you could is have some fun while letting the kid know you're not falling for that.
But all that being said, I get your point.
Huan wen is killing me. Why he can't be happy with the one he love