
this is the second time i've reread this and i still don't understand ilay someone explain to my peasize brain pls

What he means is that tae you don't have to believe that you belong to me you need to be aware of the fact that i illy consider you my belonging and also illy is trying to reassure himself that if i constantly have sex with him and say certain things again and again tae will become aware or brainwashed that tae is his property and himself that he will not go anywhere

Buddy you'll witness illy garbin tae ui private part so strongly that he passes out illy was jealous and making up scenerios in his mind that maybe tae had sex with xinlu or his try to leave me and have sex with xinlu he said to taeif you try to leave me i will crush it so you can not use it , after tae begged him and said what illy wanted he finally let go of private parts and he then had sex , knowing tae he decided fuck it I'll just stay with him

this was such a bittersweet treat, mo subverted so many things in the best of ways. usually characters like him (head honcho, has the physical build of a super dominant-looking dude, bends over backwards to do favors for his crush) are so aggressively top that it's such a gem to see that not only is he open to being a bottom, but he's also trying to learn and grow and is emotionally mature enough to communicate his feelings and put the needs of someone he cares about above his own. when nuo got assaulted, instead of being physically violent, he let authorities handle things. he wants to learn and get along with his employees (but honestly instead of giving gifts, set a culture of taking pto and limiting overtime). it's so incredibly hard to realize, "my feelings have been one-sided" but mo handles it with a lot of self reflection and class.
i get where nuo is coming from, he seems to have a lot of trauma from his past relationship and doesn't seem ready to start a new one anytime soon. he did try to create a boundary. maybe he doesn't owe an explanation to anyone, but he also knew how mo felt about him and really should have been more transparent on where his headspace is instead of leaving mo in the dark with just a no. there were little hints but at the same time i couldn't really gauge how nuo felt about mo. does he have feelings but is afraid to commit, or was he just taking advantage of mo's feelings for his own self gratification?
the ending was too abrupt, it'd be nice if there were side stories about nuo's friend, peachie, nuo's sister, and a look into mo and nuo's life after they've moved on.
btw based on how the story played out, it feels like the title should actually be "no arguing with xiao nuo", mo ended up being pretty compromising
thanks for the meal ლ(´ڡ`ლ)