He is such a yellow flag there is nothing wrong with setting expectations and boundaries on what you want in relationshipsâin fact itâs a good thing that he did. She knew what she was getting into but decided to pursue him anyways.
The red part is the fact that overall, itâs never a good idea to 1) pursue someone with different relationship goals, 2) that doesnât know what they want and that 3) is clearly emotionally unavailable and closed off.
Sanari seems like an overall GOOD/decent guy who looks out for her, but with the way he is now, he doesnât make a good BOYFRIEND/love interest. I get peopleâs frustrations towards him but it isnât a crime to not want something serious itâs just a clear indicator that you probably have some problems inside you that need to be worked on first. HOWEVER, to the others defending him too, you canât seriously call this behavior cute
Wtf is even happening anymore?? my opinion on this is getting worse the more this drags on like donât get me wrong I was all starry eyed for Nasu and was happy when they started dating but I donât like what the author has turned Kaya into
like itâs just sad, and I understand itâs not healthy for him to be so dependent on our FL but at the same time, FL should not have said to Kaya that he âruins himself and others around himâ as if that would help?? What the hell, now heâs just gonna double down
Rai is obviously ML guys kannan didnât even get screen time till later on in the story (and following shoujo logic that means he isnât the one) and clearly she feels something for Rai but doesnât want to acknowledge/doesnât realize it because Rai himself, is in a way also cowardly with his feelings and encourages her to pursue them.
Girls usually always want what they canât have and this applies in shoujo too, and itâs not that she âcanâtâ have Rai but more like heâs the most distant with her rn