I live in a country where it's basically illegal for LGBT people to be together, like you could go to jail for up to 5 years if you're gay; I'm bi, so let that sink in lol. I'm constantly surrounded by homophobes, and the only people I've outed myself to were my siblings (they really don't give a shit), and a couple of friends, but other than that ......
I'm 27 and still a virgin, never kissed, or dated a guy because either a guy was interested but wasn't my type, or they were weird AF. I'm not gonna settle and then regret it later if I do meet that perfect someone. And for all those young ones out there don't let anyone ever. EVER pressure you into doing anything you aren't comfortable with. If y......
I tried to tell someone I thought was a close friend I was feeling depressed (I was so nervous I'd literally practiced what I was going to say) they cut me off mid sentence with a 'yeah, okay' like I'd somehow impeded on their time and then physically turned their back to me. She's not involved in my life anymore thankfully. But during that period......
Love yourself before you love others. The more you value yourself, the more you learn to accept the value others put in you. Also, by giving yourself ample room to grow and learn what you need in a partner (not what you want), you can avoid unhealthy or toxic relationships and find someone who fosters that growth and allows you to change for the be......
I'm a gay seme girl, and my gf is 100% uke. And even if it's unusual for such a young couple (I'm 19, she's 18), we're into bdsm. But like, for real, not just the rp and the ropes, our whole relationship is about our Seme/Uke dynamic. So I take my "role" as her Seme really seriously. I did a lot of research etc, and I can't stand to see a "seme" tr......
I lost mine with my current bf of 8ish years when I was 15, not to brag. When manga say sex with love is the best, believe me they're right, it is.
I got married recently and lose my virginity and also my first kiss to my husband, at the age of 27. The reason I stayed virgin is because, I dont feel any needs to have sex towards others. I was in girls school until college, and when I got into a co-ed college, I dont feel attracted to them. I was questioning my sexual orientation at one point to......
22 y.o (gay) male. Still a virgin....well, I have a lot of sexual experience with my past boyfriend (let's just say I was exclusively the 'uke' lol). But I chose to refuse going all the way. To me, sex is a very special bonding between lovers. I'm choosing to wait until I feel in my heart and in my gut that this is the person I can completely lose ......
People are free to believe and think whatever they please, just like anyone else. I don't personally like them because I believe that people can be and love whoever they want, but that's my own thought. I just don't think it's right when you have homophobes that shove the "A man must be with a woman" shit down peoples throats, because that's not d......
I'm 23 yo and was not aware that some teenagers thought this way about being a fujioshi. As you said, it can be seen as a shameful thing that is better to be kept secret, that's why I understand why some teenagers draw a parallel between doing your coming out and reading yaoi. I didn't say that it was right but I understand. Loving to read BL and s......
I don't think anyone here has ever equalled coming out as an interest to really coming out as a lgbtq member. We just kind of borrowed the phrase as a symbol of support. Personally, I tried the "coming out" thing at work as I'm asexual but no one believes me. It is seemingly impossible for people to understand it is possible to not be sexually attr......
I'm a straight girl and when i started yaoi, i had no idea it was this popular(and it wasn't THAT popular when i started it) but i hided it even from my closest friends. I was so emberrassed because they would tell things like "why would a girl watch Junjou Romantica" or some shit like that. And telling them that i loved yaoi was not that simple. S......
I don't really use the terms so I don't really have much of an opinion on it. It's more the subject of language I want to talk about. All I want to say is that there is no use getting upset over how language is used and adapted. That's just what it does. That's how it develops. It's constantly changing. Most of the phrases we use now originated fr......
Oh, please. If you're really "too old to be lecturing a bunch of 13~18 year olds" you'd know that being a closet fujoshi/danshi has nothing to do with correlating sexuality and coming out as gay. Even if that's how you feel, it's something to explain their situation (yes, a situation. humans have those), mainly online btw, to relate with others who......
Since you put this issue very serious (like, literally posting here asking people), I'll answer seriously too. 1. Yes, I'll be honest, I'm straight girl who likes dicks so I prefer yaoi since it has more dicks in the sex scene. 2. It's not written as "fujioshi", it's "fujoshi". Fujoshi : girls who love yaoi. Since you're dude, you're "fudanshi" me......
I think you are overreacting a lot. Obviously people don't think being a fujoshi and "coming out" as one is as harsh as being gay. It's just a figure of speech. Doing something in secret. Some people say the same about liking anime/manga in general. A "closet anime fan" for example. People like to share their interests, which is why it can be hard ......
Are you hurting anyone with your fetish? If not, you have NOTHING to be ashamed of. Your friend is a sheltered prude. That works for her, so that's good. I've been involved with BDSM clubs and conventions for thirty years. The only thing I am ashamed of is having injured a partner accidentally when I was younger. If your partner likes to be kissed,......
Homophobic people-what do u think about them?