Hey there. Probably you have enough replies now to make an academic paper if you want to, but since this popped on first the page, let me give my 2 cents too. I'll play the very broad and general card, although I know many people are not like this. There are some cool and sensitive fujoshis (and fudanshis!) out there. It's just that toxicity pops ......
31, female, asian australian, Nurse manager, been loving yaoi for 17 years now, my friends and partner are freaked out. At times he thinks I have thoughts about him and his male friends getting it on. Lol
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5 Question for fujoshis from a gay guy