Rip's Things

I'm pan and genderqueer and I have a very... complicated relationship with BL I had some very unsavoury run ins with fujoshis when I was younger and any BL I saw, was cringey, rapey, abusive, gross and so so fake. It made me hate myself more and deepened my internalised homophobia. It really pushed back me discovering my sexuality and gender iden......   reply

you... probably shouldn't ask people those sorts of questions unless you already talk about sex with them think "would I ask this of a straight person?" if the answer is no then don't. You don't need to know how your friends have sex... thats kind of weird most yaoi and yuri were written by and for straight people and are incredibly unrealistic.......   1 reply

that really sucks :/ I'm sorry you had to go through that My mum was dissing my boyfriend who I've been with for three years and then we started arguing about that fact that I never want to have biological children and in the heat of it all I yelled "well if I wasn't with (partners name) I'd probably be with a girl and then you'd have no chance of......   3 reply

I'm asexual panromantic and genderqueer. Its a bit of a mouthful so I usually just say I'm queer lol I'm a big sucker for queer relationships, mlm, wlw, trans and bi characters etc I feel like a lot of yaoi and yuri is very fetishistic and made for straight people but when I find a good one I cling to it! Some faves are Asagao to Kase san, Whisp......   3 reply

Hi I'm genderfluid! I don't know where you got that information but its all wrong! Lets throw out the stereotypes and start from the bottom~ Genderfluid is a type of non-binary identity. For me, my gender flows up and down the gender spectrum. There are days where I am masc, femme or neutral. These periods usually last between 1-8 days. It's like ......   3 reply