Kiwwi's Things

So i was outside today and i saw some1 i knew from my early highschool days. He was a lowkey-bully of mine and by that I mean he was a petty vengeful ex who childishly befriended and gathered my other exes (they were all from different classes) to hang out multiple times in my classroom during breaks to make me feel uncomfy. i was going thru a lot at that time n depressed n isolated from my gang cos i was the only one among my friends who made it to special advanced class. So basically it did a lot of psychological stress to the insecure teenage me who felt like a cornered slutshamed laughingstock. But ofc to them they were simply hanging out together plus their other friends in my class. I did try to view it like that at first and ignored them but i started leaving my classroom during breaks when I overheard them actually talking and laughing about me and i wasnt gonna stay for any of that bs.
Anyway I saw him and he probably saw me too but we didn't interact. And i wondered how i should see him as a person now that we r adults and that HS thing was more than a decade ago.
The thing is, the teen mind is drastically different from the adult's and he definitely isnt that petty teen anymore. But how do u ppl see your old then-teen now-adult "enemies"? Do you automatically view them as foul as they were before? Or are they a completely new person now who simply did silly teenage decisions when they were younger?

So my husband n I were talking earlier about our singing styles. We both play instruments and sing and I write my own songs but when i write smthing for the both of us to sing we can just NEVER do it lmao. Its bcos my genre is pop altho my vocals are better suited for broadway musicals since i have a long range for falsetto and not a lot for belting out what most pop songs sound better with. Meanwhile my husband's voice makes him only sound good singing his preferred grungy songs like nirvana and breaking benjamin. Anything else makes him sound awkward lol so hes stuck with that. I havent met anyone else who cud actually sing grunge without being a scream-shouting eargrater lol since most ppl ive met sing whatever mainstream pop song there is

So what genre/s ud be in if u were a singer?

U have a fistful of clay of your color choice. What do you make?