I'm in a relationship with a guy rn and our situation is kinda odd, we've been dating for 5 months and we rarely call or text, when I message him he leaves me on delivered for a few hours, ranging from 6-24 hours. he sometimes tells me why he couldnt reply but majority of the time he doesn't. But here's my dilemma, I don't think I feel a type of way about this situation, in my head it feels like I've given up on trying to care about what happens between us or what he does, I don't feel sad or angry when this happens, I don't know what emotion to feel. It's like if we ended things now then I guess we did, I don't know how to explain it.
Umm if you've already given up, doesn't that mean you've already given up on your relationship?
If you're starting to feel that way then I think it's bad, if you want to find out what his thinking then directly ask him if his still serious. At times like this talking to each is important since communicating with each other is essential to a relationship. If your really
did lose interest then it's better to call it quits. Anyway this goes both ways.
If one of you guys lose interest then talk it out since you'll just be wasting each other's time.
Plus if you feel like that already then isn't it just better to just formally end your relationship?
I think from my perspective it's more like I've given up on my feelings about the negative aspects in my relationship with him, I still hope for the best regarding us two, he's honestly a good person and treats me well.
The biggest issue here is he thinks of me as this "nonchalant" girlfriend and he constantly says how glad he was that I was like that since his exes were all batshit crazy. So it kinda gave me the impression that if I were to express my feelings regarding things likes jealousy and what not, I'd feel like he's gonna start thinking that I'm the same to his exes
I dont feel like I have to be in a relationship with him but I really enjoy and appreciate his company when we're together and his presence really calms me down which I enjoy. But I don't feel any sort of attachment, if he wants to leave then he can leave type thing, I have no issue in leaving as well if he does me wrong
Sorry i didn't complete what i was writing so...
What i think is that U don't see him as a boyfriend but as a friend who u appreciate his company u don't fill hurt When he don't try building a conversation with you or ask u how ur day was
U re not obligated to stay in relationship with him but u didn't find a good reason to break up with him
In situations like this u need to be serious with him like u don't want to waste your time in relationship with someone who doesn't care about you
U have to give a value to yourself so people know your true worth and value
Tell him that your not someone he can spands his free time with if his not serious in you relationship u better break up and find the real man who treasure you (=・ω・=)
Oh hell no, blonde needs to back off