PRETTY SEME X TOUGH BUFF UKE's Topics (819)

But at least now he's smart

yes, he better keep that

I'm betting that he is a victim of CSA. People who experience this can grow to either have an aversion to sxx or the opposite, hypersxxual. & Risk of Drvg use is much higher in ppl tht were abvsed. Also for clear communication? Look at the hints to Minjae's home environment.. Dudes gonna need a lot of healing before he can accurately share what he needs or how he's feeling... ((but tht don't mean its Taeyoung's responsibility IRL minjae could use some therapy lol)

Well, I know that Taeyoung is not his personal psychiatrist, and also these people too. All Taeyoung can do is help Minjae be more open. Minjae has started on his path in the worst ways, and it's going to take some time for him to get out of the circle, which he is currently stuck.. I find it a bit frustrating

Is not that easy. I was r@ped when I was younger and it fucked me up. After that happened i kept denying it. I would also have sex with people I didn't even like and never enjoyed it. I didn't understand it until later that I did that to have control. Because this time I wanted to be the one to have the choice of who and what I did. So maybe something similar is happening to him.

Im sorry if there are words that offend you. i undestand what you mean by to have control. But I do find that it's hard to see someone doing the things like Minjae does here. I just hope that someone like Minjae can love themself and not being burnt out

Oh no don't worry, I was just trying to say that some times people do crazy things and they themselves don't even know why.

Yea! <3 And it can definitely be frustrating to watch someone spiral from an outside perspective. Its much harder to take care of oneself when their life was filled with trauma. You can't always expect someone who who grew up in a house on fire to have the same emotional intelligence/understanding as someone who was given the love and care one needs to grow.. I often go back to the phrase "It explains the behavior but doesn't excuse it". I think the author will show us a rough road to redemption. I just hope they don't glamorize abuse! A common troupe unfortunately.

I'm sorry you went through this. I have a similar past. Afterwards I Went through a self destruction arc as well. It's taken me years of self work counseling and healing to even be in a somewhat better place. Wishing you the best and sending <3

Yes, definitely doesn't excuse it. Thank you and I'm sorry you also went though something like that. And just like you it also took me years but I'm finally in a better place and I'm glad you are too.
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