Lol so obvious the author has zero experience regarding mmorpg. Kinda a big pet peeve of mine when reading this
I play mmorpg. Communication and interactions with other players is not like that. Never have i looked at or noticed a high level player or even made those admiration emojis, noone does. There is si much more, but in general the characters do not make any reactions when chatting, if someone is telling me something when playing, it is not like I can see them being shy or angry
So I am sick and tired of all the abusive behaviours and relationships I see in manga/manwha. For me, these types of relationships should never be idealised, where one part is extremely jealous, forceful or manipulative. Actually, no one should idealise these types of relationships, they are unhealthy and dangerous and I hope no one actually wants to be in those types of relationships, seriously for your own sake never believe that it is okay when someone is forceful or extremely jealous.
Be healthy and happy out there, you deserve it, you really do.
So I've realized that a lot of yaoi has the uke acting like he doesn't want sex. And a lot of times it seems like their first time doing it is rape. This really puts me off. I don't know if It is just me because i was previously assaulted. But do any of you ever feel like it becomes too much?
Sometimes I feel like consent is literally not a thing in yaoi, and I hate it so much!!! Whenever I find a yaoi where the seme/uke actually consents I literally jump up and celebrate even though it should be normal ;(
It's even worse in the yaoi games. I can only name like two yaoi games where it's fully consensual. As in no rape whatsoever. That's kind of sad. Meanwhile otome and galge games get a full array of variations from dark stuff to happy stuff. It's not fair.
Kinda makes you wonder about Japanese society....
So happy to see that I'm not the only one who is uncomfortable with how toxic Yahwi is. His behaviour is not normal and should never be idealised in a relationship. I'm honestly done with all those manga/manwha which somehow romanticize abusive relationships.