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Same as "A man like you", people just immediately call Alex a domestic abuser. Or their relationship is sooooo toxic that they should never be together. Relationships are complex and most if not all would have problems like theirs, ones where they have very diff viewpoints and personalities. Yes, their relationship is not equal but you do realize that people will never be on equal footing...EVER. You can get only so close to being equal. Jiwon clearly has the advantage but that doesn't make him a bad person; they just happened to be in the situation in which Jiwon has the advantage.

His backstory is supposed to EXPLAIN his actions and personality now, not to EXCUSE his behavior. That's why its understandable that he acts this way but UNDERSTANDABLE doesn't mean we AGREE with what he's doing. People in the comments are so extreme.

Those who are calling Jiwon things he's not, stop projecting your experiences/feelings/whatever has happened to your close ones onto him. You keep applying your own definitions of what an abuser is just because you have experienced it or someone close to you have. Those who have been raped or know someone who was or is thinking of the technical definition of rape, need to stop as well. This isn't some medium that's portraying REAL rape or domestic abuse. It's a fantasy portrayal of such things. Never said it was the correct or accurate portrayal, just that this is the author's vision. You guys are too caught up in your own feelings, that you can't read this without feeling super indignant or looking at it at a more neutral way.

Both parties(Alex and DG) are both wrong and both right. The things that Jiwon did are a bit controversial to say the least but he was never abusive. You can comment all the sad stories about how you've been abused or your loved ones have been abused but that doesn't mean he's abusive. NOT invalidating your experiences or belittling them but pointing out the projection happening. He may have hit DG once or twice but pretty justified in terms of when people are angry they may lash out in a multitude of ways. Sometimes friends hit each other when they're mad but afterward they're fine because they understand each other's reasons for acting the way they did. That doesn't make them abusive. Some of these commenters have their own standard of "No physical violence under any circumstances" but most people don't automatically call someone abusive for hitting someone else.

While we're at it, DG is a generally good person but he's also made mistakes like Jiwon. I'm talking about Jiwon here mostly because most comments are directed at him and calling him extreme things that he's not. I'm not excusing Jiwon of anything but instead just explaining that just because a character did a few things that were cruel or harsh, doesn't make him that thing. You all sound like you have the logic of if a dude hit a girl, he must be an abuser or he must be disrespectful toward women when you're not looking at the full picture.

Please take my comment with a grain of salt and don't cherry pick the statements and automatically assume since I said one thing, that must mean I think Jiwon was right or any other assumption. Please don't assume the extreme viewpoints as I have stated before. STOP blaming either character when both have done wrong and right.

Jiwon's ex is Jiwon's brother's friend or sth. He was in love with him, looking all cute and blushing and happy, but he catches him cheating on him with someone else. When Jiwon confronts him, the ex is mean and laughs in his face. Jiwon then wakes up crying, and he doesn't remember how he got home after drinking with his professor. He goes to his living room and finds DG sleeping on the sofa. He realizes that DG was the one that got him home but wonders why he did not leave yet. Then he sees the marks all over DG's neck and then realizes they fucked and he panics and asks what did i do? DG then wakes up and tells him that he wanted to leave after making sure Jiwon was okay, but it seemed that Jiwon was having a nightmare and wouldn't let go of his hand so he had to stand by his bed all this time. Anyway in the end Jiwon think to himself that DG did all of this even though he treated him badly, and that DG must really like him. DG tries to start some small talk about exams but then Jiwon interrupts him and asks him if he likes him. that's where it ends.
Oh well Jiwon's ex is a piece of shit, and I sympathize. But come on, DG is such an innocent, forgiving sweet guy and Alex's past does not justify him treating him that way. I hope he doesn't break his heart in the next chapter ┗( T﹏T )┛

Link : http://gonabim.blogspot.com/2018/06/bj-alex-chapter-32-currently.html
cuz there's some request it so its can't be helped... it's already complete! please enjoy it!