Yang October 15, 2024 4:11 am

I recently found out that my boyfriend made a new friend who was a girl. She apparently likes him and he already knows that. They’ve talked in call for hours and whenever he has a problem with me he runs to her for help. She’s even given him gifts and stalked my instagram. I’m not sure about her intentions because the only time i’ve met her she’s given me a bad look. What should i do in this situation?

    Wanda October 15, 2024 4:23 am

    Well girl, ur bf is the problem here. He keeps leaving her space for hope that's why she thinks she has a chance with him. And he runs to her for help when u two hv a problem, seriously? Why doesn't he try talking it out with u instead of running to a stranger? If he set proper boundaries with her, u wouldn't be worrying about this. It's basic decency to keep the distance with someone yk has a crush on u when ur in a relationship with someone else. Ur man has no respect for u.

    I think u should talk about this to ur bf first. Tell him to cut her off, straight to his face. If he doesn't, leave him. That ain't ur soulmate or wtv, girl. U don't want to marry a man who makes u jealous of other girls instead of making other girls jealous of u.

    Khai October 15, 2024 4:25 am

    I would have a more in-depth conversation. Its important that you and your partner communicate boundaries. Personally, if my partner was friends with a person who liked them I would be a bit frustrated, as that would be a bit of a breach of trust. But, once again, try to talk to him more about how it makes you uncomfortable; If he doesn't respect your viewpoint, it may be time to reevaluate the relationship.

    Pspspspspsps October 15, 2024 4:30 am

    If the girl likes him, HE knows she likes him and YOU know that she likes him, then WHY THE HELL is she still interacting with him??? She wants your man and aparently its not as one sided as he would like you to think.

    Smellly October 15, 2024 4:30 am

    Your boyfriend should respect y’all’s relationship, he wouldn’t enjoy it if it was the other way around. Sorry as someone who’s seen this pattern way too many times… If this continues and he doesn’t put proper boundaries, leave. No man is worth your peace. Know your worth.

    Meow October 15, 2024 4:50 am

    KILL BOTH OF THEM!!!

    tissue-kun October 15, 2024 5:02 am

    she's not just a friend babes, she's the girl he prioritizes over you by bonding with her over your guys problems. dump his ass now before you screw yourself over by trusting his dumbass. he likes the validation. heck even when I'm single and someone I thought was a friend confesses to me I'd feel too uncomfortable to continue to be friends with them. and I'm single lol what does that say about him

    Grogg October 15, 2024 5:14 am

    I’m assuming he was the one who spoke to you about her liking him?
    He may not be cheating, but you have to take a step back and look at their intentions.
    Why does she feel it’s okay to share her feelings with someone who has a partner? What does she look to gain from it?
    Why does he allow someone in his space that has expressed romantic interest in him? What does he stand to gain from it?

    Are either of them considering you? Why not?

    I think the best thing you can do is sit on it. Ask yourself these questions, and afterwards have a talk with them.
    I hope it works out for you bbg

Yang September 28, 2024 2:39 pm

The female lead has a childhood friend who likes her and she also likes him. Then she goes for art classes and her teacher proposes her saying let’s date and she agrees. Then the childhood friend ghosted her and left to another city and he dates another girl in college. The female lead is in the same college and apartment. Then i forgot….:(

Yang July 11, 2024 9:52 am

My boyfriend told me he went out with his friends but didn't tell me who all. At night I see that he's getting tagged by this girl in several videos and they were playing basketball together. When I confronted him he's saying that his friends were also there but I never saw his friends in the video. Then he told me that I don't trust him and didn't defend him when other people told me so it's my fault. Ugh I'm so fed up what should I do?

    Doesitmatter July 11, 2024 10:00 am

    tbh it is, why didnt he just tell you if he was rlly with other friends too and why when you confronted him abt it he kinda manipulated you by saying you dont trust him and stuff. he could’ve showed proof there were other friends too and boom problem solved

    Silfae July 11, 2024 10:06 am

    He should clearly tell who hes going with and yet show atleast sum photos that he clearly went with his friends rather than guilttrippin u by sayin sum shit like you not trusting him. If he wanted you to atleast trust him then he should do something for you to trust him because its normal for us to be anxious on who our partners are going with or yet where he is.

    Im not sure on what you should do but keep confronting him about it and if he still wont explain the situation then you know for sure something is going on

Yang January 15, 2024 4:20 pm

Guys I'm a 100% introvert and this guy texted me from nowhere saying he's interested in me. so i rejected him coz he told me I was seeking attention and after that he showed me his true colors

    Koi!! January 15, 2024 4:25 pm

    He's an asshole don't even bother w ppl lile that babe you rejected him straight up n you've done w your part, he's just a dick when he started bitching about being rejected. I'm sorry you had to go thru allat w ppl like him babes

    Tinfoil January 15, 2024 5:02 pm

    You dodged a severe bullet, because if he got mad about a simple rejection..
    Then there's no way he could have been a good person, sounds like he's was only nice bc he wanted to get with you but was pissed he didn't get his way, good on you for standing your ground! ( ̄∇ ̄)

    Yang January 15, 2024 5:04 pm
    He's an asshole don't even bother w ppl lile that babe you rejected him straight up n you've done w your part, he's just a dick when he started bitching about being rejected. I'm sorry you had to go thru allat... Koi!!

    Thank you I was so stressed about how he started getting angry at me and actually wondered if I did the wrong thing but ur comment did make me feel better

    Yang January 15, 2024 5:05 pm
    You dodged a severe bullet, because if he got mad about a simple rejection..Then there's no way he could have been a good person, sounds like he's was only nice bc he wanted to get with you but was pissed he di... Tinfoil

    Thank you so much for understanding like istg i had no idea who to text in such a panic but u made me feel much better

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