I wouldn't say that enjoying a trope in fiction is the same as enjoying it irl, but rather it's the refusal to be critical of these tropes or even allow others to be critical that raises concern. Discussion and criticism is a totally healthy aspect of a community and shouldn't be demonized, and the analysis and critique of enjoyable media is all a part of media literacy.
Though I will say, that it's one thing to critique media and another to judge or condemn those who consume said media based solely on the fact that they enjoy it.
But (for example) if someone in the comments were to read the latest chapter and start "shipping" a literal infant with a grown adult (fictional or otherwise), I think that's condemnable behavior worthy of critique because it does glean insight to a concerning pattern of thought.
Being "sensitive" to troubling themes is not a bad thing and it's those who cry and complain at the sight of criticism that are actually insecure and emotionally/mentally immature
And if you see a take you disagree with, argue if you find that fulfilling or just don't engage, but don't argue and then complain about always having to argue and defend what you enjoy, because frankly, you don't have to. That's a choice you're making.
I read this a few years ago and can't find it. It's a BL with the MC as a actor/model (i think) that is into choking n stuff, then if I'm not mistaken he gets set up by his managers with a sex worker that'll do all that stuff with him. I don't remember much other than this one specific scene of the bottom being tied up and hanging from the ceiling (old man client of his did that). If anyone knows what's called I'll be in ur debt
God, I've seen what you've done for others, when is it my turn to be happy.
LEAVE MY BOY ALONE, HE HAS DONE NOTHING, IF HE DIES, I DIE. How are u killing my little meow meow like this, baby is the only one in the mansion who hasn't commit a war crime yet, let him liveeee
You can tell the new generation is starting to take over when there's a bunch of triggered comments about this manga Back in my day—