Dan is living an unfortunate life and I would not expect perfect clarity of mind from him. For most of his life, Dan had to make decisions while disregarding himself. With Jaekyung, he found "safety", "home", and is now finding "love"... I believe everything has now been set up for a major change and I wonder what comes next. It's easy to envision more angst and misunderstandings, them going their separate ways only to yearn for each other, but I hope to be surprised with a totally unpredictable development...
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I mean obviously Dan is traumatized from what happened to him at his old job so that definitely affects his situation with J, but he chose to enter the deal knowing what he was getting into, so there's no excuse for him. I mean we've seen that he is a traumatized and weak-minded man that is generous to a fault, and I think that he is a simple and badly written character. I hope that he gets better and realizes what he has done to himself but i doubt it.
Why don't these moral crusading prudes just blind themselves, honestly