i don't know abt yall, but as a closeted bisexual, im glad the author chose to go this way. my FIRST and only mlm relationship ended because of the fucking anxiety, paranoia and the constant overthinking. not because we fell out love!!!!!! it's that damn fear. it's not easy at all to be closeted and worse to be in a very toxic environment. even when u know no one's watching or judging,,, it still feels like people are looking at u and talking shit behind ur back. we were in the same circle of friends and tbh, we could have flirtef with each other as a joke, kissed as a joke, hugged as a joke. no one's gonna bat an eye. they'll just think we are boys being boys. that we are just goofing around. but i couldn't do that with him. what's between us are real, and we couldn't take the risk to slip even a little. even talking to each other makes us wonder if someone noticed something. it's fucking scary and draining. we had to overthink all our interactions. we also made up fake girl crushes (im convinced this is a universal closeted experienced lolll). we let ourselves get teased about the girls we "like" just to completely erase any (nonexistent) suspicion. im not saying it's a good thing. it's exhausting. it's not fun. making up lots of lies will drain u. plus yall both dumb af for getting jealous over the shits u made up. but what im trying to say is, this "trope" is a reality to some people. i feel so seen with this kind of trope. yeah, people are more open to same-sex relationships nowadays but it’s not that easy to erase the fear that u grew up with. guys, im not saying that jiwoon did was okay. it's not at all. i really hope he finds the courage to speak up and be open in the future. but it's kinda sad seeing people hate on hus character or the author. it's okay to be disappointed but let's not forget why jiwoon acts that way. cause I fucking swaer, same-sex relationships are not for the weak. i cannot properly explain to u how it ruined us. all i could say is that relationship sucked the life out of me. the fear i felt during that year left me traumatized. i promised myself it would be my first and last mlm relationship
I'm so sorry OP that it turned out that way for you, it hap0ened to me too and it's very devastating and honestly you end up defeated bc it feels as if you end up being hurt in all possible outcomes. You are so right and I feel the same way reading this story. Some readers forget that characters have can't always be perfect and that's what makes a story play out differently from a main cliche and it also addresses a very real situation that happens to a lot of people! Sadly not everyone is able to have the courage to be so open and free with their lives, be it because of their upbringing or their surroundings, and this kind of visibility should be eye opening so it could be better understood! It's def a nice story and we should all root for the mc's happiness
I went through the same thing. It sucks. Being in a same sex relationship when you've been closeted all your life is so damn exhausting and requires so much courage.
I'm so sorry OP that it turned out that way for you, it hap0ened to me too and it's very devastating and honestly you end up defeated bc it feels as if you end up being hurt in all possible outcomes. You are so... Mint
ppl also forget that this is jiwoon's first same-sex relationship lol. he's gonna feel scared and make lots of mistakes. and it's love, bro!!!!! not everyone has their shit together all the time when it comes to love. people get scared, get confused, makes mistakes, and mess things up. honestly, i prefer characters like him. i dont want characters who are too mature, too rational, too perfect. they're kinda unrealistic. and ur so right. this kind of trope is an EYE-OPENER. not all relationships are sunshines and fluffs. not all gay people can love openly like what u read or watch. not all gay people have others cheer on them. that’s why i like jiwoon’s character. he shows what it’s like to love and to hold on to that love even when you’re scared. hoping the best for him and also for you @Mint!!!!!! i really hope the author brings justice to his growth and story. andd not just jiwoon... may we also find that same courage someday hahaha
I went through the same thing. It sucks. Being in a same sex relationship when you've been closeted all your life is so damn exhausting and requires so much courage. saitamashi
fucking real! i have lots of regrets, but one of the biggest is that i let myself get consume by fear so much that i wastnr able to fully applreciate what i had back then. that's why ilove jiwoon's character. he reminds me what i went through (not exactly the same lol but still). so i wish for him to be able to love without fear. also us guys!!
ppl also forget that this is jiwoon's first same-sex relationship lol. he's gonna feel scared and make lots of mistakes. and it's love, bro!!!!! not everyone has their shit together all the time when it comes t... NYAHAHAHAHA
Thank you @NYAHAHAHAHA!! Wishing you the best too! Hopefully we get to see jiwoon's growth tgthr so we can see him flourish and learn about courage (the author really also puts perspective on the cute side of things so we get both sides to not feel gloomy and discouraged in the story, so that's a nice addition)
i don't know abt yall, but as a closeted bisexual, im glad the author chose to go this way. my FIRST and only mlm relationship ended because of the fucking anxiety, paranoia and the constant overthinking. not because we fell out love!!!!!! it's that damn fear. it's not easy at all to be closeted and worse to be in a very toxic environment. even when u know no one's watching or judging,,, it still feels like people are looking at u and talking shit behind ur back. we were in the same circle of friends and tbh, we could have flirtef with each other as a joke, kissed as a joke, hugged as a joke. no one's gonna bat an eye. they'll just think we are boys being boys. that we are just goofing around. but i couldn't do that with him. what's between us are real, and we couldn't take the risk to slip even a little. even talking to each other makes us wonder if someone noticed something. it's fucking scary and draining. we had to overthink all our interactions. we also made up fake girl crushes (im convinced this is a universal closeted experienced lolll). we let ourselves get teased about the girls we "like" just to completely erase any (nonexistent) suspicion. im not saying it's a good thing. it's exhausting. it's not fun. making up lots of lies will drain u. plus yall both dumb af for getting jealous over the shits u made up. but what im trying to say is, this "trope" is a reality to some people. i feel so seen with this kind of trope. yeah, people are more open to same-sex relationships nowadays but it’s not that easy to erase the fear that u grew up with. guys, im not saying that jiwoon did was okay. it's not at all. i really hope he finds the courage to speak up and be open in the future. but it's kinda sad seeing people hate on hus character or the author. it's okay to be disappointed but let's not forget why jiwoon acts that way. cause I fucking swaer, same-sex relationships are not for the weak. i cannot properly explain to u how it ruined us. all i could say is that relationship sucked the life out of me. the fear i felt during that year left me traumatized. i promised myself it would be my first and last mlm relationship
I'm so sorry OP that it turned out that way for you, it hap0ened to me too and it's very devastating and honestly you end up defeated bc it feels as if you end up being hurt in all possible outcomes. You are so right and I feel the same way reading this story. Some readers forget that characters have can't always be perfect and that's what makes a story play out differently from a main cliche and it also addresses a very real situation that happens to a lot of people! Sadly not everyone is able to have the courage to be so open and free with their lives, be it because of their upbringing or their surroundings, and this kind of visibility should be eye opening so it could be better understood! It's def a nice story and we should all root for the mc's happiness
I went through the same thing. It sucks. Being in a same sex relationship when you've been closeted all your life is so damn exhausting and requires so much courage.
ppl also forget that this is jiwoon's first same-sex relationship lol. he's gonna feel scared and make lots of mistakes. and it's love, bro!!!!! not everyone has their shit together all the time when it comes to love. people get scared, get confused, makes mistakes, and mess things up. honestly, i prefer characters like him. i dont want characters who are too mature, too rational, too perfect. they're kinda unrealistic. and ur so right. this kind of trope is an EYE-OPENER. not all relationships are sunshines and fluffs. not all gay people can love openly like what u read or watch. not all gay people have others cheer on them. that’s why i like jiwoon’s character. he shows what it’s like to love and to hold on to that love even when you’re scared. hoping the best for him and also for you @Mint!!!!!! i really hope the author brings justice to his growth and story. andd not just jiwoon... may we also find that same courage someday hahaha
fucking real! i have lots of regrets, but one of the biggest is that i let myself get consume by fear so much that i wastnr able to fully applreciate what i had back then. that's why ilove jiwoon's character. he reminds me what i went through (not exactly the same lol but still). so i wish for him to be able to love without fear. also us guys!!
Thank you @NYAHAHAHAHA!! Wishing you the best too! Hopefully we get to see jiwoon's growth tgthr so we can see him flourish and learn about courage (the author really also puts perspective on the cute side of things so we get both sides to not feel gloomy and discouraged in the story, so that's a nice addition)