Dayu's Questions (24)

Why is nobody talking about this? I find it weird that people love reading stories about rape and dubcon, even if they went through the same thing and are "coping" with it by reading it, it is still glorifying rape and dubcon, as well as them just being rude to their partner? Very odd people who create and read that. Hope those tropes fall out of place and become less popular.

Bruh however someone gets over their own trauma is none of your business. Ideally therapy would be better but that’s expensive >.>

That's not getting over it? It is intentionally indulging into their trauma. Therapy is expensive, but seeking that kind of, "coping" is not healthy in any way and should not be considered as coping.

Actual therapists recommend these kinds of indulgence actually, so do with that information what u will

Uhmm!!! What!!! Absolutely NO therapist should be recommending something that glorifies their trauma, where did you learn this info? I'm actually confused at that statement.

as a bl reader i hate the weak submissive type of "uke" /bottom trope . also hate rich Ceo x submissive girl.

R*pe yes this is a trope in bl and none bl.


for dungeons webtoon i dislike how most are just copy paste :/

Bl reader here
The whole concept of BL top and BL bottom. Like yeah they're both man but the bottom is a feminized 14y/o looking boy who moans and whines at every touch
Also the fact that they always get hit off by men ONLY and tops get hit off by woman
like idk it's so annoying I'm trying to read gay stuff but it's so heteronormative

Amnesia tropes are just a pain to read

I personally have an issue with the concept of breaking smth in an unfixeable way so anything that involves someone losing a limb, or simply permanently ruin an aspect of someone's life is out for me

I hate doormat mc like I understand that it’s probably hard to get out of toxic relationship once you’re in it for years but like you know damn well you’re being taken advantage of and do nothing about it like broooo

Another one is from bl like when the mc say something along those line of I definitely don’t like him cause I dated a girl before like bro you’ve f*cked a man and like you can be bisexual it’s not like you can only like one gender

yes why are the men more feminine than the girls in yaoi , just ticks me off . how the top is more alpha male as well.

When the ML/top is unnecessarily aggressive to their own children as some political plot device, which is surprisingly common in shounen-ai and manhua’s is general. And I mean really aggressive to small little ones. It does nothing to the character nor is redeemable in anyway.
Gah! (●￣(ｴ)￣●)

Genuinely why are authors (especially BL authors) so obsessed with awkward situations and embarrassing situations? WHY? WHY? Like bro, I can practically read anything in BL, I almost never have any complaints but the amount of times I just had to put down my phone and go take a walk because of the embarrassing situations istg. Like the story is fine, PLEASE FIND SOEMTHING ELSE FOR THE PLOT INSTEAD OF EUGHHHH. Also HAVE YOU NOTICED THAT EVERYTIME, I’m talking EVERY SINGLE TIME, in any BL, whenever 1 character tries to give the other one a gift, IT NEVER ENDS WELL, IT NEVER DOES. WHYY

Don’t remind me, Jynx is just pain filled

It’s not just jinx bro
Define the relationship
Starstuck
Dedicated to the arrogant you
My four masters
A terrible romance
Etc
EERYTHING THING UGHHHH SO AWKWARDDD

Something ive noticed is that... maybe the weak ukes and similar scenarios have something to do with princess strories(maybe, maybe not)...? the uke is weak and PURE and needs to be saved by some shitty no-character seme.

And I agree with all of your opinion(sad but true).
Why do authors keep copy pasting the plot? And people read those shits like "wow new webtoon from my fav author" or "wow what a hot sexy porny cover, bet it's good" so on and so forth. I can read the summary and guess what kind of story I will be getting. But sometimes I just gotta get my hopes up(in vain) thinking that maybe the story wouldnt have shitty slutty seme, weak virgin uke, repeated plot point, bully to lover, rape to lover, dub con/non con, debt, blackmail, unnecessary second couple, unnecessary 2nd lead(either will be a worst guy than the seme whom the uke won't choose or a better guy than the seme whom the uke definitely won't choose, straight-turned-gay-for-one-guy seme, straight-turned-gay-being-bottom-on-the-first-try-without-considering-otherwise uke, and much more.. it's giving me a headache... (╯°Д °)╯╧╧

there's like a bunch of manhwas/mangas out there that i really want to read but i just can't because it has the love triangle trope. i just can't stand MC going back and forth on someone, it defeats my idea of romance. i also can't stand plots with concubinage in them, especially when the ML is like the emperor and he has to have multiple partners and has to f*** them to produce heirs despite being in love with the MC (this often happens on straight manhwas tho) but yeah i guess i just want to see loyalty in a manhwa because i barely see any of it irl.

It’s the typical damsel in distress trope. I think it’s because of gender norm bullshit. you usually see in old straight romance where woman needs protection and the man is the savior. This implies to bl where most uke got generalize to be more feminine. In other words it’s just old fashioned straight romance pretending to be bl.

True. Basically it's misogynistic ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~

yeaaa but you see the cheating is the human part of it (￣∇￣")

Nuuu i didn't want that obvious answer. Fuck

Don't wolves mate with like multiple partners for life? That's why in OG ABO packs there was one alpha for multiple omegas? Like lions with multiple lionesses? /gen

1) wolves don't have ABO dynamics in the wild and it's debated if they even have them in captivity
2) most packs are made up of the parents (mating pair) and their babies

the omega in yaoi or the modern one is different from the original wolf one. The modern omega stories are basically pheromones and secondary genders, in a way they are just made as a way to allow the male lead to give birth or to get treated like a woman in a misogynistic way while still having a penis (bro the way omegas get treated is vile)

4*

Don't mix business with pleasure!
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/don_t_mix_business_with_pleasure/

That's a good one. I'm currently reading it

Yep it is but you can also read full moon alchemist except minus points for experienced

Nop （￣へ￣）

Why not?

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/don_t_cry_sunbae/

This one is such a gem. I just found this in my want to read list.

I don't wanna see an inexperienced uke

Nevermind... it's also in my list. Tagged the seme as an endangered species too

Kishiar and Yuder from Turning

You young damaged soul....I hope that all the BLs without this troupe find you
(I'm bad at remembering stuff so I can't give any recs)
LMAOOO
But rn I have a bunch of stories open in different tabs

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/dial_again/
I'm reading this one, uke has the ability to die and come back to life so he decides to be a bodyguard for people in the underworld, good pay. He comes across the seme who originally hired him with the same intentions but immediately caught a liking to him

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/honto_yajuu/
Police officer x Mafia/Gangster
They're so cute. I LOVE rereading this and the author has great work.
One day a guy gets his underwear stolen by an underwear thief (LMAO) The police officer catches him and the uke immediately falls in love.
Their journey is so cute try this one first for sure
There's 2 other couples but not as much screentime as the main

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/antinomy/
Actor x Actor
Currently rereading this one
Uke is traumatised by fire when he was younger so he took a break from acting, he's back now and meets the seme who likes him. Seme has the ability to read minds and was there when the fire happened so he knows it was caused by someone. So he tries to help the uke get over her trauma and find the culprit

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/what_s_with_this_strange_dream/
Reading this currently cause a friend recommended it.
Uke is a shaman who disperses of bad dreams
People call him to basically "exorcise" and in order to do that he needs to enter their dreams. But if someone goes wrong they'll be affected with a STRONG side effect. For his grandmother she was filled with a very strong rage.
When in someone's dream, the seme (his new assistant) accidentally falls into the dream as well and although it went smoothly...in the middle of exorcising the nightmare, the flames were about to touch the seme so the uke pulled him aside and was hit instead. Now he suffers from a "strong sex drive" side effect.
Haven't finished yet but so far I love it, it's cute and wholesome

I can find mangas if i search for the tag in Google(eg: non virgin uke mangago) but the toxicity in webtoons are just too much that I can only find 1 in 100 webtoons that are wholesome with smut.

Rainbow city (it’s kinda unclear when they start dating but they OBSESSED WITH ONE ANOTHER (eventually) so trust the Seme will NEVER be a fuckboy. The Uke becomes more down bad for the seme than the seme is of him and the Uke, despite having a weaker body than everyone else and needs saving ITS NOT JUST YOUR AVERAGE CRY BABY UKE and can hold his own to a certain degree. (Head strong)!
(Also the plot is amazing, and if you wanna see the seme and Uke being lovey dovey, it’s mostly in the raws)

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/antinomy/
For this one ive already put shitty story tag, but I don't remember why..

WHICH ONE

Honestly...yeah...LMAO
Different sites, different results
Mangago has a bunch of BL cause that's what it's most popular in but honestly a lot of it is toxic.
(I don't find sleeping around before your current partner toxic...how were you supposed to know you'd meet the loge of your like ) But yeah, a lot of it is toxic. Doesn't mean there's no good ones though! The only thing is you have to REALLLLLYYY search for them. Because people be rating ANYTHING with 5 stars and that's why the site shows those types of stories instead of the underrated ones. You can also ask for recs at different times of the day (timezones). People are always sending out their lists of certain mangas and you can just go through them and find whatever you like.
Then on mrm it's just yaoi porn LMAO, Left and right.
There was another site I used, I lost the name...but I'd use it whenever a friend recommended me manga/I'd come across manga on social media that wouldn't appear on mangago

Goodluck with searching (=・ω・=)

Ya that's the problem... you gotta really dig deep to find something worth the time. But mrm is good too. They mostly have those yaoi anime porn but it help in finding new mangas(which most of the times are good :3)

This is like my 3rd or 4th time asking for a good rec btw

okay i want to find out what this is too lmaooo

Any hint abt the characters appearance? Like what color their hair and their hairstyle?

Me too

joining this too, sorry baka... hope someone finds this soon ╥﹏╥

Is this the one where he hits the guy when his classmates say he likes him? And then later he goes back like "you know I had to do this to protect our secret?" and uke is fine with that?

I don't know. I copied it from reddit. Thought I would ask around here for answers.

Lover Boy and Unromantic :)

they are popular, so idk if you have read them

Yes. Yes I have.

All these have green flag semes and no rape:

nerd project - college setting
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/nerd_project/

A mail from my dead lover - drama + good plot
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/a_mail_from_my_dead_lover/

Come here, I’ll carry you to play
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/come_here_i_ll_carry_you_to_play/

Romance, But Not Romantic
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/romance_but_not_romantic/

Punch Drunk Love
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/punch_drunk_love/

Touch Up
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/touch_up_jujucat/

The Pizza Delivery Man and The Gold Palace
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_pizza_delivery_man_and_the_gold_palace/

My Guildmate Next Door - good plot
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/my_guildmate_next_door_shortcut_scans/

Don't Mix Business with Pleasure! - college setting
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/don_t_mix_business_with_pleasure/

Our Sunny Days
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/our_sunny_days/

Swing Baby
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/swing_baby/

Boss Bitch Baby - drama
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/boss_bitch_baby/

Look at Me
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/look_at_me_tansan/

Not My Blood
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/not_my_blood/

Real Person Romance
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/real_person_romance/

enjoy (｡•ᴗ-)✧

Shangri la no tori! :D
- https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/shangri_la_no_tori/

I've read half of the titles and for the rest I'm curious if the uke is experienced.
(A mail, come here, touch up, swing, look at me)
And I've read punch drunk but dint complete it bc I thought the uke was inexperienced.

That's too much drama (￣∇￣")
I've read upto 2nd vol. But didn't know the 3rd vol released. Is it still ongoing?

I can't remember about each of the uke is specifically experienced or not lol but there definitely isnt any rape in any of these.
For punch drunk love uke is inexperienced but he has always fantasized about it so he's not shy and scared but rather quite bold. The manhwa is hilarious so I'd recommend you to give it a try.

Sadly yeah…

Gonna wait until it's completed

Omg u just stated everything perfect that I would wanna read. ヾ(☆▽☆)

Kiraede isasete

It's the first manga that comes to mind everytime someone mentions green flag seme to me. But I'm sure you read it already.

Try :

Tameshi ni Komando Itte mita
My Sweet Husky Papa
Leash Me Up
Smyrna and capri
Knock me up (not sure if uke is experienced but he cool)
Monetary love

Tnku for the list. I've read all the other ones except for my sweet husky papa

That's what happens when I get fed up with the inexperienced ukes, red flag semes, rapes and repeated cliches

FACTS ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ

I'm gonna keep posting this every other day until I find all the good stories

Idk, if ya have red this but… https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/title_mitei_no_prologue/
(I like how uke isn’t super pure maiden virgin and actually has experience but is still really cute and innocent to love) (also no rape + seme is actually good guy) (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
I only red this like an hour ago and then thought of this comment, lol

I like it (づ￣ ³￣)づ

Cherry blossom after winter…?

ignore me this is completely wrong

Lol

where did you even get that thought lolol

I misread the “black and white bl” as “black and white males” I was half asleep

You good for nothing peasants!. I found it myself!
(╬￣皿￣)凸

For anyone wondering, the title is "I have a boyfriend". If I remember correctly, it's quite a good story but I did good the uke(understandably) a bit annoying.