Arthur Morgan my pookie wookie's Favorite

Can someone explain the logic of liking a seme that only treats the uke well but is a shit human to other people..Its not attractive or cute. Why do you guys hype up these type of semes. I think I seme who can treat his uke well and still be a decent human to other characters is much better.

Here's an example. You guys hype Dooshik so much but he literally organised a grape for character and I remember one of his stans justifing his actions. Like HUH.