Zephres's Things

I can’t stand certain couples, specifically my boyfriend’s younger brother and his girlfriend. They are not that much younger than me, but somehow they have cause me more emotional distress within 8 months than the two years I’ve been with my boyfriend. Like how is it possible that every time there is some sort of event or holiday, that you......   reply

Any relationship where one person is a doormat. These guys tend to be the type to be together with someone who has narcissistic tendencies and would always feel bad even though they did nothing wrong. Like you know they will be together for years, but they’re together because the narcissist type will make them feel bad otherwise. And eventually......   reply

Spoiled brats. My BF’s little brother would spoil their girlfriend rotten but then treat his parents like trash. It’s worse cause they’re like the nicest parents ever… and boy I know you didn’t earn that money yourself…   reply

There’s a lot of possibilities: - They don’t like the person (romantically or not) - It’s too intense for them - Not ready for a relationship - They don’t like a “clingy” guy And a more “toxic(?)” reason: - it’s not a guy approved by other girls. (Girls tend to like guys that are taken because it’s like proof that the guy has ......   reply

I’m in a happy, long committed relationship, and that is because both of us are dating to marry and are willing to compromise with each other without sacrificing our fundamental beliefs. And of course, most importantly we learn how to communicate with each other. (Some communication methods just don’t work, and that’s ok) But I have talked t......   reply