A lot of the yaoi rom coms paint gay romance and sex as this rosy affair that's almost like a shoujo manga. Though I think most of us readers know that it's not like that irl, it's nice to see a work like this that kinda attempts to show what it's like for ordinary people and especially the demographic we don't usually see represented in yaoi manga: them old and middle-aged dudes. I like that neither of them is portrayed as a "blushing bride" type of character. They're really just middle-aged men who do old man things and have old man habits. It's not glamorous it's not sexy and sometimes it's kinda gross what they do (like huffing stinky breaths like fools) but I can actually see that happening since it's two guys who are just so comfortable with each other.