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begging for mercy and the privilege to breathe the same air as Dan. AND HE BETTER NOT TOUCH HIM UNTIL DAN TELLS HIM TOO!!!
yeah right i want him to suffer too d ath even tho I love jeakyung cause what he did in past was bad ast
Is the fujoshi/fudanshi community possibly the least homophobic community that is well known? (Maybe take fetishzation into consideration...)
Please discuss.
As a fujoshi myself that purely keep my fiction as fiction and not something to compare others with out in the "normal world", I'd like to hear others opinions on this.
You see, the thing about some people, they find fetishizing this sort of thing okay but when it comes to actual gay relationships they might be completely against it. (These people are a lot more common than you think). Putting fetishizing to the side, I think many people reading these sort of manga are accepting and probably support lgbt rights. I think many people also learn to accept it through reading (In my case, I might have actually turned out homophobic because of the people around me, but this was a sort of starting point to accept it). You could agree with this community not being as homophobic but the fetishizing is seriously out of hand sometimes...
No. A lot of fujoshis hate the lgbt community and just fetishize them. And even if some of them like gay people they hate lesbians and transgenders.
Of course i'm not talking about everyone but i've met A LOT of people who are like this.
Everyone has different opinions. It would be wrong trying to generalize a whole group. Some people do, some people don't. In my personal opinion though, I think it would be weird to read yaoi and not support the LGBT community, but because there are so many people who reads it, there are probably some people who do mind for whatever reason.
Well, in my country I never encountered a fujoshi/fudanshi who is homophobic irl...I can't really understand how this can work actually ? You like gays for the cute or hot stories but not irl ? How come o.o ??
I agree that reading yaoi can open minds though. I myself would have problably been more narrow minded than I am now if I hadn't started reading yaoi.
I also think that liking yaoi doesn't exclude not liking transgender and other sexual orientations. But here is the key word "other".You may accept one thing but not everything. You might like apples but it doesn't mean you like all the fruits altogether.
Personally I'm curious about other orientations and haven't set my mind on what I think about them yet because I know a lot of thoughts can be influenced by how I was raised etc. So I'm waiting for opportunities to talk to those people and reading more litterature to set my mind about it. For gays, lesbians, pansexuals, assexuals, bis and queers I totally support them because I could talk to people of those sexual orientation that could tell me how they lived and felt.
In conclusion I would say that I don't encourage hate against the lgbtq+ community but it doesn't mean that I don't understand people supporting one part of the community and not the rest.
For me it's a progress that a person can be enough open-minded to support one sexual orientation. There were times (and it still exists nowadays) were supporting anything not heterosexual was a shame and/or a crime...
I'm happy enough that there are small changes. It's like that that we will get ridden of every single prejudice. Step by step.
Oh and I forgot to say : I don't support nor understand hat crimes be it against gays or other orientations or race etc. You might not support or like the community but then, just leave them alone and go your own way. You don't need to spit your hate at every corner...
Well, what do you mean by "community"? A lot of people believe fujoshi are homophobic (I'm not just talking about the ones who hate gay people irl; even the allies are considered homophobic by many), but what other communities are we comparing them to? Do you mean fandoms? Or does this include actual communities, like WBC, for example?
By community I just meant like the whole group of us. (The entire subculture in itself) And yes, comparing it to every fandom and community (culture/subculture) you can think of.
Thanks for all the replies peeps~! It’s interesting to hear your opinions (●'◡'●)ﾉ
At this point idk if it’s good or not. Clearly the drama is supposed to be messy here, and the art and writing is decent I guess, but what is the PURPOSE?! I don’t get it man. They’re always talking about being «stringed along» well at this rate IM THE ONE BEING STRINGED ALONG. What the hell is up with Jaehyun man, he needs to get his shit together. And why is older sis so upset with her lil’ bro when he really just tried to help, author doesn’t even show what else he did besides accidentally starting a rumour (really it was the other guy who was kinda dating her who spread the rumour without even talking to her about it first…) if anything she should be upset with her PARENTS because they’re the ones clearly treating their children differently. I have siblings myself and the whole dynamic between them is SO WEIRDDDDD. (Best part about having a sibling is complaining about your parents to each other lmao) Why not deal with it if you have to face each other all the time?? At least establish a truce or smth so that it doesn’t affect their social life like it has been. The whole thing is just incredibly infuriating because I cannot choose which character to root for. Which I guess is kinda the point?? And why the hell is Woowon the one closest to a happy ending when he’s a piece of shit who literally raped Jaehyun?? HUH?!? To me, from the perspective of lil’ bro it seems he’s the least… worst?? And Hyo-girl (sorry I’m really bad with names) doesn’t seem thaaaaat bad she’s just really desperate for that pussy lol
Anyway, I’ve come this far so I guess I’ll finish, it’s literally kept me up all night because I really thought they’d solve this situation between them. But basically, they’re all just different degrees of bad people, some of them are definitely worse than others….
Ok what the hell was even that. Am I supposed to feel sorry for Jaehyun now?? Dude was so hard to read the entire time I STILL HAVE NO CLUE WHAT HE WANTED?!? Someone help me, am I stupid?? What was the point?? Who is the villain here actually? Is Jaehyun the victim?? Dude was stringing along EVERYONE and ofc that doesn’t mean he deserves to be harassed or raped, but was he though?? I fr thought he was into it. Why DID he follow big sis that night of the trip?? He was gonna fuck her and from what I understood he was gonna fuck lil’ bro too after confessing or smth idk. So he literally fucked both of them just like (I think??) he wanted?? What’s he upset for?? And is he really just gonna brush over it and pretend that whole ass mess didn’t happen?? He’s an asshole regardless for the way he treats people. I’m confused and angry dude. I wasted my time on this shit. I don’t care about happy endings, but I wanted an ending THAT MADE SENSE AT LEAST?!