For me, I personally tend to separate Yaoi and gay but I understand what you meant. Some parts of the community can get really toxic. The Uke Seme dynamic is something that I believed in the past when I was younger, now I'm pretty open to any type of manga but never shouta manga. They act really feminine and girlish they might as well be a female,......
Sorry but I find your questions biased and rude. You are complaining about comments that you only read. Have you actually stopped and asked a girl IRL (like you keep stressing) if they feel the same way as how you described above? I am a girl but I am not obssessed with yaoi like you stated. This is a manga site. The last I know mangas are not real......
#5 Wow super ironic since we have been pornographic material for straights our entire lives as women #4 it is sexy as hell n fantasy reading #3 u just asked women n girls why they like to discuss relationship dynamics and power which made me lol-- because we enjoy it #2 we don't-- u have sample size only from those who commented, which means bias......
i have never wish i was a gay male but sure i wished i was male cause the only way u get the best things in this life is if u was born a caucasian male even though i read yaoi i have never ever once considered myself a fujoshis the word sound stupid to begin with i don't know anything about fem characters getting bashed i personally love the aspect......
I read shota from time to time. It sometimes disgust me. Sometimes not really. But I don't think it shouldn't exist because of that. If it disgusts you then just don't read it. If people enjoy it, that doesn't make them shotacons or perverts, and it doesn't mean they enjoy children's rape and suffering in rl. This is fiction, after all. Sometimes p......

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