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It means the translator didn't understand it, mtl didn't understand it either and so we are cute to not understand it too

Curse* ajjajajajajaja

I mean.. they all came from the same country to this event, it's not like they don't see each other for work in Korea

It would be one thing if they just started dating but it’s been years. Not mad about it in this case

Yeah but you invited a couple so that’s kinda on you for not thinking this might happen lmao

It’s a couple in a romantic place staying at a hotel God forbid they fuck each other

Oh, you're totally right! For some reason I forgot the setting and I was thinking that those people had come to see them.

ngl thats pretty self centered, i get that you wanna hang out but if they want to prioritise their alone-time then its completely their right

no way omg TT you're socially obligated to at least give the others a heads up if you REALLY want to spend some time alone... this is totally rude, I'd be pissed as well. Imagine you make plans with your friends and they ghost you. freakingly rude. being a couple doesn't excuse bad behaviour

(this is in no way directed at you btw! I hope u have an amazing day and that I didnt sound too aggressive? english isnt my first language)

You’re such an absolute sweetheart I love you lmao!

If you invite a couple to a romantic holiday destination, you should absolutely expect them to do couple things and no they don’t have to tell you that they wanna fuck each other. That’s not your business. This is why people who have friends that are couples usually don’t invite them unless they are also a couple (or have a group of single people to go around with). As long as they aren’t arguing in front of the group, it’s not rude for them to be lovey dovey in a romantic place. This is their holiday too babe. And they ditched dinner not an amusement park or something else that cost a huge amount of money per ticket. Them ditching actually cost the group less money.

Also what’s really rude is going to a couples room and knocking on the door and standing outside and ringing them over and over when the obvious answer is that they are doing something together. You can feel free to yell at them for ignoring your call but you can’t be mad at them for being a couple and doing couple things. A romantic partner does take priority over a group of friends. That’s the social norm. I’m multi-cultural and in every culture I’m in, they also expect couples to do couple things and they even encourage it if the couple hasn’t had alone time on a trip!

They're not saying you have to tell them what you're going to be doing, you should give them heads up that you don't wanna go. Like if they wanted to fuck, they should've made up an excuse like they were too tired or they just didn't want to go. I think it's reasonable to be angry at the couple because you planned to do something together and they just ditched you without saying anything. That's pretty rude. It also doesn't say the group any money because everyone is spending their own money for things. That doesn't make any sense. In my family, everyone pays for themself. The only ones who don't are the kids and usually my grandmother would pay for us when we were smaller. Also, places that require reservations are hella expensive. You don't walk into your local Burger King with them expecting a reservations to dine in!

It's about the principle. We planned something together and instead of you giving me a heads up that you didn't want to go or couldn't make it, you just don't say anything. No one's angry that they're a couple doing couple things, they're angry that you clearly ditched people without trying to reschedule plans. My culture doesn't do ditching on people. You don't want to go? Say something or that's disrespectful and rude of the other persons time.

They did though. They told the group they were staying in today because the top felt tired and they wanted to spend the day together. The group said that outside the door. Go back and read it. They didn’t ghost at all! They didn’t agree to any plans!! You’re getting WAYYYYY too angry about something that you’re just actually factually wrong about ╥﹏╥ my culture also lets people know we don’t want to do something but my cultures also know when to take a hint! Some people show through actions more than words. In this case, they showed through BOTH actions AND words. Please go and reread the chapter. If I’m wrong about them saying that they’ll be staying inside today, I’ll eat my foot.

They didn't have plans together tho?? Everyone is in this country for a work event, he told them he was gonna stay in afterwards with his boyfriend. THEY showed up at their door bc she wanted to hangout
If you ask me the only rude ones here are the friends who kept calling him and when he didn't answer they showed up knocking at their door

Thank you bestie! This is exactly what I’m saying! These people didn’t read the chapter properly and are getting angry at the wrong person ╥﹏╥

hi again! you and the other person are both right actually; you're right about the chapter, but they're right about me talking about the principle!
ofc romantic partner > friends, but it would still be rude of a couple I'm going on a vacation with to just ghost everyone and mind their own business. I'm not saying they can't/shouldn't want some time for themselves, I meant more that you should tell the other people you're with that you want to be by yourselves! Same goes if I want some time for myself, by myself, in a vacation where I'm with another person. It's only polite to give a heads up!
I ofc wasn't talking about being lovey-dovey in public or, like, telling everyone you want to do sexy stuff... ahahah, i was talking about the principle & not the chapter!
I love u too btw ! thanks for taking the time to reply and explain your point further (▰˘◡˘▰)

Hey love! Ofc the principle stands that humans should communicate their wants and needs so others around them can plan accordingly but the couple did that. That’s my point. It’s also not exactly rude to NOT communicate clearly. Some people (myself included) have days where their mental health is so overwhelming that they can’t verbalise what’s wrong and with how much society likes to call people lazy or cowardly for it, we’ve learnt to retreat rather than explain. Also, some people just can’t speak at all. There are times where I literally cannot talk as if there’s a psychological block preventing me from speaking. Ofc that doesn’t mean everyone feels that way and not everyone has these conditions but just as they should be considerate of you and give you a heads up, you should be considerate of them and give them grace as well as a chance to explain things before you get mad at them. We live on one giant rock in the sky so we should learn to understand each other and give each other grace when grace is due ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~

Love you~! You’re really nice to talk to! Hope you have an amazing day/night!

Not being able to speak is understandable, but it's the digital age. It's not hard to send a text or an email simply saying you're just not up to doing anything and want to be alone.

Sure but I’ve got tons of friends who despite being on their phone literally all day will take 5-7 working days to respond. This includes a friend I go on trips with. She doesn’t pick up the phone either and social media is also a no go. There’s no one size fits all and that’s why we need to treat others with grace. I could be pissed at that friend for never being easily reachable and always being late without letting me know but instead I’ve decided that’s just who she is and I send our meet-up time to be 2 hours before when I actually want to meet up with her. It’s literally not even a big deal. It’s not a hill to die on and get mad about. She equally puts up with me when I don’t want to talk or am feeling anxious because she’s the extrovert out of us two and she advocates for me and helps me try new things. It’s a give and take. If you can’t do that much for your friends, you shouldn’t be friends. You’re supposed to learn how the other works and work with them not against them.