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I know that trauma can’t be fixed just because you want it, it takes time and an incredible amount of will power and support. But I just find it selfish that he knows he has trauma and yet drags her in it without trying to communicate with her. It leaves a bad taste in my mouth because not only will she feel incredibly inadequate but also feel abandoned (which will create another cycle of trauma…)Hope the communicate better.