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You got played. "You deserve better" is just one of those breakup lines that diverts the blame and makes you feel sad for him, when in reality he just wanted to fuck and that's it. I'm sorry it happened to you, but don't continue thinking about him. Learn from it. You can't always trust what someone tells you, and you shouldn't do anything you're......   1 reply

You can't spot reduce fat. Exercise is such a small part of weight loss (albeit healthy and important for other reasons) that what you should do first is find out your TDEE (daily calorie allowance) and eat less than that. Every 7000 calories is 2lbs/1kg, give or take. You can easily lose about one lbs a week by reducing 500 calories a day. If your......   reply

I was 18. Had a bit of a slutty phase afterwards and slept around a lot (when I say a lot, I mean 50+ partners). Now I've settled down and have been together with my boyfriend for almost a year and half. While I went a bit overboard, I'm glad I took the opportunity of playing around and having fun with sex and gaining experience. It's made me more ......   3 reply

I'm not a virgin, but I'd just like to warn people who want to wait until marriage -- it's your right to choose, of course, but don't forget that sexual compatibility and love do not go hand in hand. It's not because you're marrying the love of your life that you'll have good sex. You might be completely different in bed -- and no, a lot of compati......   4 reply