It's very hard to get out of a toxic relationship. I spent 5 years back and forth with my toxic ex and didn't know how to end it, until you start prioritizing yourself, giving yourself self-love and thinking about the future, you realize that that person only drags you down and doesn't let you progress. Then you get a healthy relationship like it happened to me and you realize the difference and the things you thought were normal (in the case of theo normalizing rape) are not.