OMG, same. I barely ever find anyone who reads yaoi for the plot. I also agree with all your points, but I believe there's more problems than that.
Yaoi literally perpetuates unhealthy relationships. I see so much yaoi where the possessive seme doesn't let the uke talk to others and "punishes" them when they do. It's so gross. Most relationship d...... reply
1. Well, I think I'm trans (didn't transition yet) so it's a comforting thought experiment for me to a man. I (usually) don't mind being a woman, but I would feel more comfortable in my body if I was a man.
2. They are? Didn't notice this, I'm not that in tune with the community.
3. I just like the dynamic, but I know that it doesn't work like tha...... reply