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I AGREE （/TДT)/

You guys are so fuckin’ wild leave this girl alone. I see friends do this all the time in manga but the second she does it she’s a fucking super villain all of a sudden. Lighten the hell up! They’re obviously close friends so you guys just need to calm down.

Half the time it feels like y’all wanna kill all the women off in yaoi manga to make room for more dick. Pieces of garbage.

Also about “invading personal privacy” none of y’all were saying that bullshit when YuYang did the SAME THING TO LiHaun!!!! And they weren’t even FRIENDS YET

Stop making reasons to hate her and just admit that you don’t want women in your media already so we can expose ur true intentions

It was cute when they did it but she's a bit annoying. I'm a girl myself so know how other girls work and she's trying to JUMP out her friendzone .

I don’t see her doing that at all. The manga is setting it up to where that might become the case but what she’s doing right now doesn’t seem bad at all and so many people are hating on her for no reason imo.

She should just run into my arms and her and I can star in our own GL comic, she’s so beautiful.

And you’re only thinking it’s cute when they did it because they’re the main couple and y’all approve obviously. But it’s a huge double standard.

ya'll guys looking for reasons to hate her but your failing lol she did nothing wrong she's trying to comfort her best friend -.- stop being childish

Bull, you don't comfort your friend (who you want to turn straight for you) by pestering them and not giving them much needed time alone, especially when they are telling you to fuck off in all but words. She's a grown woman who is acting like a kid. Many people when they are upset or angry need time alone to reflect or to busy themselves with something else (He was getting on with uni work), having to deal with a bratty adult trying to cling at your arm and pull you just because THEY want attention would annoy even the most tolerant and submissive person.

Part of being a "good friend" is understanding boundaries and respecting your friends needs. She hasn't shown much of this so far.

But other friends in real life and/or manga/anime do this as well!! And I literally NEVER hear anyone talk shit unless it s a girl. I’m not saying nagging your friends is a great thing obviously because it’s not but hadn’t it been some dude doing it that didn’t have a crush on him y’all wouldn’t be saying shit about it and would instead brush it off.

And she also hasn’t said she wants him to turn straight for her? Yeah she had that insensitive moment where she was curious because she never saw him in a relationship and so she got the wrong idea. But she was open about it to him and now knows that he has someone he likes. I’m not saying she won’t push her feeling so onto him in the future and at that point I’ll be like “girl no, stop” but she hasn’t done that so far??? You can’t just TURN OFF your feelings or control them? But she’s just been hanging out with him as a friend so far and done nothing to cross the line.

ALL OF YOU SHOULD STOP BEATING AROUND THE BUSH AND BE HONEST - YOU DON’T WANT WOMEN IN YOUR YAOI MANGA. YOU ONLY WANNA SEE DICK. JUST BE HONEST AND EXPOSE YOURSELVES FOR WHAT YOU TRULY ARE.

wow, by 'all of you' to whom are you referring that too, all of those who read this manhua? those who read yaoi? calm yo tits. personally I don't effing care if it's a woman, a man, if they're being annoying and pushy then they're being annoying and pushy, they should effing stop. if someone looks like they want to be alone then anyone, any type of gender should respect that person's decision. and yee i just wanna see dicks, what's wrong with wanting that in a yaoi? if people doesn't want to accept this or whatever it is you're saying, what's the problem in that too anyway. do you feel insulted if people doesn't want to acknowledge it? why? they got their opinions, you got yours, i got mine, i mean just acknowledge each other and stop pointing fingers just because you feel like you got shit on people.

Shit dude I was gonna say basically the same thing but you beat me to the punch. Kudos

I think it’s pretty obvious I meant specifically the people shitting on not just this girl but women throughout yaoi. And yeah I wanna see dicks too but it doesn’t mean I’m gonna shut on every woman I see just because they aren’t contributing to my dick-craving piece of shit self. There’s no need to burn this girl at the fucking stake when she’s really not being NEARLY as shitty as people are making her out to be.

yea I figured, just thought it'd be fun to poke on it because you're not being clear. Well then do your shit, and let people do theirs. I mean, call them out but honestly there's no need to 'grab their collars and make them spew the info you wanted to hear' well unless you're yakuza lmao

I’m literally just calling people out on the shit they’re spewing. How am I grabbing anyone by the collar?

honestly, your past comments (if those were you) is not subtle, to put it to words.

if that is your way of calling out, hmmm, you do you I guess, but know that it's no where near friendly, it looks to me like you're trying to pick a fight with the crowd you're trying to call out. When I mention call out to them, I mean, call out to them in a friendly manner and I cannot see it in your comments (again, if those were you)

Pfft, calm yo' tits~☆

stop making shit up. No she's possessive and rude. Yuyang never invaded Lihuan's personal privacy, he assumed the type of person he was which bothered me. SHE on the other hand is literally possessive and pushy on Yuyang. She interrupts his convos with other people and makes him hangout with her and her friends, she tries to get him to like her when she clearly knows he's gay. Yuyang has never done that to Lihuan so don't even fucking try it.

if your friends do that then they are fucking assholes and if you pester people in real life then you're an asshole. If you think she did nothing wrong then you are just as problematic as she is. She wants attention and it's disgusting. Yuyang clearly stated he didn't want to hangout and was tired, she has no right to touch him in a way and try to drag him off his chair. SHE ALSO HAD NO RIGHT TO STAND BEHIND HIS CHAIR WATCHING WHAT HE WAS DOING. If you see nothing wrong with what she does then goodbye. Also the fact she rudely took Yuyang away from hanging out with Lihuan to hangout with her friends, again if you see no problem with this then you are just as problematic.

Indeed. Her behaviour would be wrong regardless of her gender.
Two other occasions that were selfish and inappropriate also, were"
- She called him out in the night for help (usually someone would assume this was for an emergency). No it was to get him to carry items that she could have managed herself.
- When out for coffee she questioned of he was really gay, all because she hadn't seen him going out with anyone.
As well as the swimming pool drama where she pressured him to leave his new friend, leaving him alone in a place he has never been too. Then pestering him for attention when he has some rare time alone and is trying to reflect and busy himself with work because, she wants attention.

None of those occasions make her seem like a good friend at all nor has she ever shown any consideration for his feelings or needs.

Omg re read the chapter yuyang MADE that decision to go he wasn't forced against will, it was wrong of him to go and he should have stayed with lihuan regardless of peer pressure or lihuan saying that he should go which it seemed evident that he wanted yuyang to stay. And "attention" or "question sexuality" wtf that's practically in nearly all yaoi manga where the seme/uke likes the that person but they're straight, however I won't say they literally question their sexuality they however do stuff to keep they're attention on them even though they know they're not gay except that it's in reverse this time. I honestly just think you're letting your biased of her cloud your judgement and clear evidence. As of now I don't consider her the antagonist (yet). What your doing is no different from what yuyang is doing right now in the last two chapters.

O.M.G. There are a lot of assumptions being thrown around here, on both sides. All we can know about her is what we've seen, and we haven't seen much. So, here are the facts:

-She's called YuYang out multiple times to do tedious or troublesome tasks, most likely because she wanted to see him. (That's an assumption, but it's a logical one.)

-She did question whether or not he was truly gay, and while I can understand her POV, you don't do that. If someone says they're gay, trust them about it. Although, if she were a closer friend to him, I think it would be more of an okay thing to ask, but he clearly doesn't view her as a close friend.

-She obviously has feelings for YuYang. This can be seen through facial expressions and physical gestures. Don't deny it, we all know it. In fact, we can probably assume that she was curious about whether or not YuYang was gay BECAUSE she has feelings for him, and didn't want him to be. (That is an assumption, but I've thought this way myself, and just trust me LOL I'm right.)

+Her inviting YuYang to play with her and her friends is not a negative. She never said LiHuan couldn't come along, it was LiHuan who didn't want to. If anything, it's YuYang's fault for leaving him alone like that, especially since they were supposed to hangout together. This was just her being friendly. Nothing wrong with that.

-She absolutely had no right to pull on YuYang's arm like that. He said he wanted to be left alone, and she didn't listen. I get that she might be touchy and all, and that friends might do this, but YuYang was clearly not in a good mood, and this was a bad move. Sorry, but there's nothing more to this one.

These facts prove to me that her presence in this manhua is more negative than positive, so... do with that what you will.

-Oh, and even his FRIENDS said there was something up with YuYang's relationship with her. That was the creator themselves who wrote that in, made it canon, so you can't really argue with the creator now can you?

As for my own opinion about her, well... I don't think she means any harm. She's a girl who has a crush, and everyone can be a little reckless when they have a crush. Love is dangerous, hello? I don't view her as a villain so much as an awkward side character, and I feel bad for her. But seriously, until we see more, I really think she's harmless and in love, and she doesn't know what to do about it. I'm sure she wants to stay friends with YuYang, and that's okay if she doesn't continue with the romantic route. I don't feel at all angry or violent towards her, because there's no need to feel that way. She's doing things wrong, but she is obviously not purposely being harmful. She just (most likely) doesn't know how else to go about things.

I agree everything you said, with one exception (so, not everything XD). It’s the “She had absolutely no right to pull on YuYang’s arm” that I have mixed feelings on. If she was not a close friend, then, yes, she’s crossed the line. You don’t touch someone like that. It can be seen as agressive and be viewed as a possible act of violence (If a stranger grabbed your arm, you’d think they were going to harms you, right?).

But, she’s his friend. A friend she can see that is clearly upset about something. You’d hug a friend or try to get them out of their ‘funk’, right? That’s what I saw this poor girl trying to do. She likes him, knows that there is no hope of them being together, and is punishing herself by wanting to be there for him.

I just seriously hope she stay’s in the role of being a good friend, and doesn’t turn into the stalking, ‘if I can’t have him no one will’ hoe we always see in manga when a girl decides to go after a seme or uke.

Ummmmmm.. you guys do know that the girl who asks him to hang out with her at the swimming pool isn't the same girl right? THAT girl is named Zhou ying while the girl who's in love with YuYang is Jian Yu. AND pulling someone's arm like that wasn't bad at all; she's always been a little close with Yuyang, at least in her mind and plus he hangs out with her quite a lot cuz he's nice. Saying someone has no right is really up to the person who has that happen to them. In addition, she clearly stated that when she was in a bad mood, YuYang would tell her to hang out with friends because that might cheer her up a little so she said it back to him. Asking him to do tedious stuff isn't all that bad considering YuYang is practically super nice and was willing to meet up with her. Yeah in hindsight all these things might be rude but honestly, she hasn't manipulated him like other female characters have and most of the stuff she does is quite genuine. She does like him but that doesn't mean she's a bitch just cuz she wants to hang out with the person she likes. People have to take into perspective the situation. Obviously everyone has an opinion but clearly everyone is taking this to the extreme extreme by being super biased, looking at it at only their POV, not even in YuYang's or Jian Yu's.

SHIT OOPS I HAVE A TERRIBLE MEMORY but that sucks bc that takes away the positive.... RIP. I do think the OG poster is in the wrong for being so obviously malicious towards her, when she's clearly a harmless character, and I do agree with you that a lot of yaoi readers are incredibly biased against female characters. She does seem like an actual friend, albeit slightly annoyin', and YuYang doesn't seem to really be bothered by her t h a t much. I just think we don't have enough information to go on yet before we can really declare her position in all of this. BUT FOR NOW, I DECLARE HER AS HARMLESS. ANYONE ELSE WHO CAN COME UP WITH A GOOD ENOUGH ARGUMENT TO DEBATE THAT, DO YOUR DAMN WORST. OTHERWISE, THERE'S BEEN ENOUGH SAID WHERE I FEEL LIKE THIS CONVERSATION CAN NOW BE CONCLUDED.

preaaaachhh -- finally someone with logic

You guys keep making comments saying that they aren’t close friends and while they may not be super close, they are obviously pretty good friends? Like, they have overlapping friend groups/friends that know each other too, so some of the assumptions y’all are making about her not even being close to him (and therefore shouldn’t be able to do some things) are wrong??

Bless you. So many other people just wanna jump on “she’s a girl! we should go kill her or at least punch her until she leaves.” It’s so fucking infuriating.

Did you just bless yourself AHAHAHA

That wasn’t me who had made that comment?

I made the bless you comment and the one right above it.

All anons are not the same lol