Kim Dan, baby, you are too good for that man. It actually crushes me seeing such a kind uke getting stomped on; you deserve someone who loves you wholeheartedly and appreciates you. I’m tired of seeing ukes getting trampled on and abused, and I’ve been reading yaoi for a long ass time; it is 2024 we need our ukes to have dignity, pride, and self-worth. All the wear and tear your hole receives you shouldn’t have to put up with jerkwad semes, find you a man who’ll treasure you. As Madonna said in “Express Yourself” “don’t go for second-best, baby”!