Hello
So I'm drunk. like not drunk but dru nk.
I have a question. Do you guys have some secrets that you've never shared with anyone? Because now everyone are very open with their emotions and I can't force myself to talk about what
I want to eat because I feel that I'm going to be judged as an attention whore.
Idk if this has any sort of logic but I hope u guys understand.
Also I feel like throwing up.
Bye world
I’m a very reserved person so yeah I got secrets lol. all of my friends besides two (one I don’t even talk to) know my actual interests.
You shouldn’t force yourself to talk about certain things if your reserved, but I’m sure you’ll be ok if you tell someone your hungry for a certain type of food lmao. Feel well soon.
I'm not talking about intersests. I hate talking abougt my problems because I feel like I'm exfgerating them. I naver talked with my mum about selfharm and about my pro ana lifestyle and these things still haunts me and I dont know what to do.
okay i'm going to sleep because I will regret these messeges tomorrow. Still thanks for advices :)))
I'm curious how did you guys find out about your sexuality? Technically I consider myself as a pansexual (I get turned on both by males and females) but I've never slept with woman so I'm probably a homosexual (???) . I found out I was okay with boys when I watched porn for first time and I wasn't "disgusted" by male body. Then 4 months later my brother's friend wanted to teach me how to kiss and in that moment I realized that I was even more than okay with boys ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭
"The dictionary states the definition of bisexual as: “sexually attracted to both men and women”. Meanwhile, the definition of pansexual is: “not limited or inhibited in sexual choice with regard to gender or activity.” While it can be easy to say that both definitions mean the same, exact thing, the key difference between bisexuality and pansexuality rests on the focus on gender identity.
Bisexuality implies that there are only two genders, that being male and female. Pansexuality, on the other hand, implies that there are more than two genders. Pansexuals have no problem dating or sleeping with a transgender person, for example. This also includes people who fall out of the gender binary and consider themselves genderqueer (people who do not identify as just man or woman)."
~ https://www.healthyplace.com/blogs/thelifelgbt/2014/11/differences-between-bisexuality-and-pansexuality
Well now I'm confused. I look at the gender as a spectrum and I think I would be down with having sex with transgender person. However, I think sexuality is the matter of biological sex, not a gender. Sooo what am I? I don't really care about terms but It would be nice to know just in case (〜 ̄△ ̄)〜
Help me, I'm clueless ┗( T﹏T )┛
Ps. sorry for my bad english
Your English is fine! But I mean I’m bisexual and I’d date a transgender person....I don’t see how it isn’t the same thing either unless what goldenScale said was correct.
But bisexual don’t always focus on sexual attraction, why do asexual bisexual exsist then?.... I don’t know.....I’m no help lmao
Im going to stay with bisexual though
Hi~ actually bisexual and pansexual are the same. Also, bisexual people would sleep with trans people too, since when mostly we say trans we assume we're talking about male or female (but there are also agender or enby people, which are trans too).
Summary, bisexual and pansexual are the same. If you read the bisexual manifesto, it says "do not assume there are only two genders", and that manifesto is from 1990, if I'm not wrong ( http://binetusa.blogspot.com/2014/01/1990-bi-manifesto.html)
Please don't take my words harshly because I was just saying this to inform.
I can understand your misconceptions. Pansexuality and bisexuality tend to be mixed up a lot, and yes the difference may not be that striking but it’s there!
Pansexuals don’t care about gender or gender identity. To put it frankly: Pansexuals don’t fall in love with the gender but with the person. It’s nothing but a mere coincidence whatever gender their loved one may be. Bisexuals are turned on by gender and by persons, while pansexuals only are turned on by persons. And yes they be might be turned on by their female or male partner, but that’s not because of the fact that they are female or male, it is because they are that person that they are.
Bisexuals can be attracted to people sorely based on what their gender are, pansexuals cannot.
Hello :)
Can you guys reccomend me some gay themed movies without sad ending? I already watched "Call me by your name", "Boys", "North Sea Texas" and "The way he looks".
I can reccomend one movie from my country (Poland) "Floating Skyscrapers" but only to someone willing to cry his/her eyes out :""")
I've got a job!!! Finally I won't be broke ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
congrats xD best of luck ^.^
Congrats!