Ok, blond girl is despicable - it’s ok to hate her, the characters is made this way
BUT - when it comes to real life, i’d like to share some enlightenment that did help me better understand or tolerate some not so great mother (or step mother : /)
To be a mother doesn’t mean you won’t still have need as a woman - as an individual
to want to take a break from children (for a movie or a short holiday when they are older) is by no mean evil, it’s not only natural, but probably also better for the children
A schrink once told us, that to be a good mother - to be able to give (a lot) , the mother needs to feel safe, cherished and fulfilled and that it should be the father main job (i’m not sure i follow, but well)
What is still true is that when you become a mother, you still are part of couple
When you’re part of a couple you also still are your own person
Every part of you needs to be respected and fulfilled
The best way to be a good parent is to manage your wellbeing and happiness !
It’s hard to share food (or love) happily if you’ve been starved for long)
In the end, as much as i deeply dislike that former main character, i could not help thinking that i was fast to judge, and that i know little - it won’t make me like her, though ;)
So i was wondering : the bad guy, is really idiotically extremely evil … But isn’t it kind of the same as many many vilains in harem/palace romance fact ? ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~
So why is it so unbearable ? I seriously don’t get why the hate or the desire to drop the story for the sake of that one character ( ̄∇ ̄")
After all, these spoiler are so absurd, it’s super non realistic
So here is my honest question :
Would you react the same way if, instead of a pretty gay boy, the vilain was a purple haired girl (that we know got died evil , curse the purple hair!) ?
Please let me know if you have such such a strong reaction, why is it ?
I’m sincerely curious, i hope it can be a peaceful and fun discussion (●'◡'●)ノ
So basically for fear of whatever "fate" she determined herself, not based on current circumstances, but on a fantasy and trauma of a previous life, the girl avoid every possibility ahe could have for love - including the one she would be happy with - and not caring for whom she might hurt...
Is that her take on "victory "
That would be as disappointing as it would be scary :/
(Btw, the fantasy on commoner lifestyle is ok while young and healthy, with no kid to educate, and in a prosperous peaceful country : isn't short sighted ?)
As i see it, they both found their feelings, and their emotions have become really ripen enough to share :D
A public misunderstanding might be just the right thing for her to blow at him that he is unfaithful to the bad girl, and with a little bit of luck, for him to finally confess …
Well at least that’s my wishful thinking
There would be a lot to say about them as an awkward couple and i’m certain all of us readers are getting impatient ^^;;;
What do you think ?
It would make sense he could not go back if he lost his abilities as a guardian
That would also explain why he’s so broken hearted, if he had no way to contact her too ?
He still looks very young. I doubt he really lost all of his abilities
But its still shtty that he's dissapointed that her daughter didnt search for him when he was the one that told MC to wait for him at the magical space for guardians(i forgot the name lol)