Oh man I'm mixed cause like jumped the gun? Yes, but seme over here like why don't you trust me? Bro shall we look over your track record for sanity? Ultimately I think I just keep coming back to the fact they're both toxic and a lil cray cray I just want it to jump to the uke accepting the position of puppy.
I've seen some people say that consent was given but I fully disagree, because there was no true discussion or education or safe word, every time he said no should have immediately stopped play. Instead dude just kept pushing and even stopped him from saying no because he didn't like it. Especially with play like this you can't just be like oh you were drunk but you said yes soooo. And even after when he's like well I guess I liked it? Well maybe I love him? It's like no, that's the adrenaline babe and the crazy hormones being released into your system.