I hate the culture of pushing friends to date strangers. Like, bruh if YOU feel bad for them getting rejected, then YOU date them. Don't force others to date when they've already said they're not interested.
Personal experience of this: Two dudes who I thought were my friends pushed me to my STALKER. They thought he was harmless, and that I should "give him a chance". And I wish I had the guts back then to tell them to f*ck off and go date him themselves if they like him that much. Don't be an incel who endangers women by forcefully setting them up with people they're not interested in. Go endanger yourself, not others
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Blocking just so you seem like you had the last word in the comments is such a coward way of avoiding confrontation for your own comment. Either respond or ignore, but blocking just to save your own ass from getting whooped in a comment section is so funny If anyone see that user here again, tell em I said "lmao".
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P.S. Hey Watcher, hope you don’t mind, I used your comment to get my reply across since the person blocked me. Appreciate it, and thanks for unintentionally helping out!
Hm??? They still didn't tell him that they made out and almost had sex tho??? They summarized it as "he mistook me for you and went to a hotel but he left when he sobered up" but cut out the part they were kissing on the bed???
That still counts as hiding what happened between them. Wtf, I thought they were going to be 100% honest now? It's unfair to just slide it under the rug as if it's not a big deal.
Just tell uke about it, it's not fair to be acting like "what, no, nothing happened between us, stop being sus about me going to that bar" when clearly something pretty significant did happen between them along the way.
And the low-key gaslighting. "I never said we were a fling, I just said we had an INTIMATE relationship because we're special". Likeeeeeee, bruhh. How can Doha not feel like there's something going on with you two, or blame him for feeling uncomfortable visiting that bar when y'all are talking like that.
I get that they're only close friends now because they ended up not having sex, but making Doha seem like it's just him imagining the air between them or that he's just misunderstanding their "intimate" relationship is just gaslighting.
Doha just spilled everything about his life, even the most traumatizing parts. And yet Bom hardly ever revealed anything to him about his family problems either, and now he's not even fully telling Doha about his past relationships. Am I the only one who sees this bs??
I get what you mean and why you’re upset, its totally true that he could’ve just been more clear about what happened.
Though the statement: “went to a hotel” is vague as to what happened, most can guess the intent and possible actions leading up to it. So it’s likely that Doha already knows that their friendship started with an attempt to have sex- but ended up not going anywhere, and he just doesn’t care enough about it.
haysss whatevs, I'm talking circles with you insisting that. Just be thankful this is only a fictional bl manhwa, because a mindset of communication like that in real life relationships is a major red flag.
Deciding only for yourself what's fine and what isn't, not considering what your partner really feels. Low-key gaslighting them that it's just their misunderstanding. Aight, bye goodluck.
Jeez. If the kiss had some value to it, they'd probably be open about it. It was basically nothing so they didn't specify.
And for Doha, if he's really bothered by it, he'd be asking follow up questions like how far they have gone before stopping. I'm not saying communication is not important but triggers and sensitivities differ from one person to another. Doha's acceptance and concern is obvious and it was answered. Bom and the friend doesn't have anything to feel guilty for. Like girl they are grown ups. They understand they are not virgins. Doha just wanted to be sure there're no lingering feelings. You can't expect your sensitivities, standards and morals to be the same as every one.
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Ummm I agree with you on the "making Doha jealous by saying they have an intimate relationship" thing
And you're completely right about honesty
But I don't think that's what the author meant in that chapter
Lemme clear the misunderstanding
See, I assume you've never gone for a hookup after clubbing (which is totally cool)
But in those situations, the kissing usually starts in the back alley of the hotel and continues in the elevator and then on the bed
So the "...went to a hotel" thing already covers the kissing part, really. I don't think it's that serious
I'm not saying that's good behaviour ╥﹏╥
But dumb shit happens when you're young
Yeah, confidently assuming that someone else is fine about something on their behalf is kinda crazy.
Like, similarly on YouTube I saw a parent prank their kid in a way that made the kid cry sadly. Everyone pointed out how awful that prank was for the kid, but the parent's only response was "oh she's over it, because I know my kid better than anyone else, I bet she doesn't even remember it".
But like, that's just the parent's assumption saying that the kid was fine, and not the kid themself actually saying that they're fine.
So some people really just have the audacity to assume they know someone else's feelings or thoughts more than the person themself.
For me, it's not about the level of knowledge you need about hookup culture to understand "went to a hotel" means they ate each other's faces on the way there, the problem is the phrasing which still attempts to be vague.
Particularly Bom, who's still attempting to be vague and still trying to hide it in some way. Like, tell me. In the end, WHO was it that brought up the part that they went to a hotel? Not Bom, right?
So, Bom wasn't even the one who told him they went to a hotel. He essentially did zero of the explaining. But did allow someone else outside their relationship to tell Doha implications of them being intimate and all. That's him being vague and secretive.
Compared to how Doha explained everything that happened with him and Dohyuk. Yes, Bom found out from Dohyuk first, but Doha actually planned to tell him that day anyway, even if Bom hadn't found out.
Doha was being 100% with him from then on even though he hid so much, but Bom is still being only about 60% honest (he didn't even spill, if anything).
I think it's just unfair bcs Doha talked about one of the hardest things to talk about, which is getting SA'd. But all he gets in return is some vague sh*t.
Hahahh I see that so many ppl are saving THAT page with Jingi to their albums XDD
He just looks so good with the short hair, wearing a suit and tie. Low-key, can't wait to see how he dresses up casually once we get to an arc where he's out of prison (if that ever happens). I'd also like to see what Heonjae would look like with a better haircut.
Please spoilers of the most important parts I need to know if this is worth my time. If the ML is even the slightest bit worth redeeming.