i totally dislike gl when is one of the characters is all shy and blushy and jumpy, and the other one is all tough, boyish and has a strong way to communicate her thoughts and WE ALL KNOW the roles they play, also when one of them (and i mean this as a bl/gl thing) is married and decide to cheat on their partner, like cmon, that just stops the plot......
Yk what fucks me up the most if we leave all the SA stuff behind, its when the characters say "i'm straight" but they be fucking. Just the "i'm straight but i like you" trope, it makes me roll my eyes everytime, just say you go both ways dawg. They be making boys kiss each other but be to scared to say that they're gay or bisexual etc.
when they call the uke "wife" or "mother" like that's genuinely so icky at this point just make a straight manhwa. What's so hard about calling them "husband" or "father" seriously. omegaverse is the culprit in all of this, it doesn't have to be one and some bl's STILL do shit like this, it should NOT be normalized.
Name an ick/dislike you have in BL/GL