Like the author just copy and pasted some random black images on him. A butterfly, snake and eagle wings. Nothing flows together and looks weird.
Fl doesn't want him and is settling with him just because he wants her. That's selfish because he's been in love with her for many years.
Girl he just "showed you the world" and you still confused. Like goodness just ask him about the bridal competition and his feelings towards you and stuff. Why be so dumb?
The chief is her mama!