whysie's Topics (3)

Well get in a snm relationship disobey and see what happens. Don’t like it read something else

Right??? To be honest, people are just getting off on Chanwoo's humiliation and pain right now. The victim blaming is also disgusting. Chanwoo has been in a CYCLE of ABUSIVE relationships, are your sitting her asking dumb questions like 'why doesn't he say no?' 'why doesn't he leave'? ??????? ?? HAve y'all not read the past chapters? Chanwoo has clear issues with boundaries. MD KNOWS THAT, which is why he said the safe word for Chanwoo. HE knows Chanwoo won't refuse him - that's what makes it so messed up and manipulative. MD has the ability to just talk to Chanwoo, but nah, he's just being a petty hag. Fuck him honestly

No, ur completely wrong, it was unnecessary, bdsm is all abt consent and that’s not what they usually do, it was brute force and he’s definitely not ok with it, don’t speak on things you don’t know of.

It is S&M play . The dom can do whatever he want as long as the subs permit it . if chanwoo felt offended or it was too much he should say the safe word and talk about how it degrading on his part.

BDSM is about enjoyment and safety of two parties. Right now Chanwoo isn't enyoing any of that and MD knows that.

I totally argee with you!

If he don’t like it he can leave no who stopping him, y’all fail to realize he got too much pride to say nothing so it’s really is own fault

From the look on Chanwoo’s face after the slap and the entire vibe, it didn’t look like he enjoyed it to much... Which is what BDSM is abt lmao

stop victim blaming PLEASE. it's not about pride. it's about not being able to recognise boundaries due to his past abusive relationships. in fact, it's manipulation on MD's part for egging on chanwoo, when he clearly knows this

You on dumb shit. BDSM has no limit. So you can go as far as you can. That’s why they have the “safe word”. MD wouldn’t force shit into this. The fuck you expect in S&M? Teddy bears and hugs? They were already doing there play. We know MD wouldn’t actually slap him in general. Y’all act like MD punched the shit out of him. If you are really going to cry over a slap, you might as well stop reading this side story.

Bdsm does have limits, Chanwoo has a boundary issue and MD knows that, I don’t hate MD and I don’t think the other ppl do but this was unnecessary, srr I don’t want ppl to get the wrong idea of bdsm and abuse their partners This definitely hasn’t gotten to a worse point but it’s better to call it out, —THIS ISNT PROPER BDSM AND MD KNOWS THAT—

All am saying is if you don’t waNa be in that type of relationship becuase if the past don’t be in it like no one told him to be in the relationship

'no one told him to be in the relationship'..... manipulation, guilt, being unaware of boundaries, being scared of left alone.......they exist. they are reasons WHY theres a cycle of abuse. you're victim blaming.

Babe, there’s always gonna be a discussion abt what the S&M are gonna do before the acc play and there is gonna be some shit where you can’t do, and can do. That didn’t seem to happen during this play.

Yes, we know that BDSM is rough, but also BDSM is something that is enjoyed between both parties, but Chanwoo seemed uncomfortable af and most definitely didn’t seem like he enjoyed it (the slap) whatsoever. MD (from my perspective) seems to rather be just venting his anger out onto Chanwoo in the pretext that it’s just “BDSM” play, when rly his ego just took a big ass blow.


We’re not saying that we don’t want to see Chanwoo and MD be together in the end, we’re just saying that it would be better if Chanwoo and MD got together using mature and calm communication rather than MD throwing a tantrum.

Exactly!!!