The thing is, Annette wouldn't have accepted him back when she was young and naive. His existence was just too impossible for her to even conceptualize. She needed to know suffering and experience it to actually understand it. I'm glad they can now be honest with each other and move past the circumstances of their first relationship.
How can you know that ? That's insane thing to say. Like maybe if she just shower her she would have understood. She wasn't evil just naive and sheltered. She was kind to the people around her.
I would never want someone I truly love to go through the horrors just for them to "truly understand my suffering"
How can you know that ? That's insane thing to say. Like maybe if she just shower her she would have understood. She wasn't evil just naive and sheltered. She was kind to the people around her. I would never wa... Readerreading
Her privileged bubble would not let her see past his scars. If he revealed himself to her she would've tried to sympathize, yes, but she would also run away from their wedding bed if he did. She's kind yes, but she's also really, blatantly, and deliberately ignorant of the world before all this. She didn't even ask about the commotion outside during that one party because her kindness only extended as far as she could touch.
That's why Heiner's hatred ran as deep as his love for her. He believed she wouldn't have understood and he was right. I don't believe he wanted her to suffer per se, but he was miserable and one thing about misery is it claws on everything it touches and drags them down with it. She just happened to embody everything that put him in that situation (rich, aristocrat, handed everything at the expense of everyone else) Had she been the daughter of a common man, this would be an entirely different story. I'm not defending him, but he was right about the past Annette never understanding. That's just my point.
so you are saying SHE NEEDED HEINER TO PUNISH HER THOROUGHLY ENOUGH TO TRY SELF ELIMINATION TWICE AND FOR HER TO HAVE A MISCARRIAGE so as to be understanding of him better????
Are you saying that was the only way???
Why did he not just let her go??? break up with her and banish her out of his side???
BUT NO..
He kept her with him to make her a mocking stock for the whole empire...made her the scape goat for ALL THEIR TROUBLES ... and you're here somehow justifying that??????
Are you serious??? Really????
OMG!! May this kind of love find you then since its necessary for growth...
so you are saying SHE NEEDED HEINER TO PUNISH HER THOROUGHLY ENOUGH TO TRY SELF ELIMINATION TWICE AND FOR HER TO HAVE A MISCARRIAGE so as to be understanding of him better????Are you saying that was the only wa... perkystar
Wtf are you even saying omg... that's not what I'm talking about at all... By cruelty and suffering I meant the war. Her being in the frontlines. Unsafe. On the receiving end of a gun. She still wouldn't have understood him after the divorce despite all of that she went through if she didn't decide to be a nurse, the one thing that she achieved without the help of the privileged life she was born into. I said I'm not justifying what he did, just that in that relationship it was inevitable because despite all his love she was still everything he hated in the world.
They're still characters of a fictional story, flawed and bound to be ugly. Stop projecting your morality into characters because it stops you from engaging with the story properly. Now you're wishing shit on strangers on the internet because you don't agree with them
Wtf are you even saying omg... that's not what I'm talking about at all...By cruelty and suffering I meant the war. Her being in the frontlines. Unsafe. On the receiving end of a gun. She still wouldn't have un... ning
My morality? Oh, I am sorry for having morality that is preventing me from burying myself in the sand and accepting this toxic relationship...
My morality? Oh, I am sorry for having morality that is preventing me from burying myself in the sand and accepting this toxic relationship... perkystar
Yeah by wishing ill on others... get a grip and stop being weird. If stories like this one cause you to behave the way you do right now I think you're a bit young to be reading them in the first place.
The thing is, Annette wouldn't have accepted him back when she was young and naive. His existence was just too impossible for her to even conceptualize. She needed to know suffering and experience it to actually understand it. I'm glad they can now be honest with each other and move past the circumstances of their first relationship.
How can you know that ? That's insane thing to say. Like maybe if she just shower her she would have understood. She wasn't evil just naive and sheltered. She was kind to the people around her.
I would never want someone I truly love to go through the horrors just for them to "truly understand my suffering"
Her privileged bubble would not let her see past his scars. If he revealed himself to her she would've tried to sympathize, yes, but she would also run away from their wedding bed if he did. She's kind yes, but she's also really, blatantly, and deliberately ignorant of the world before all this. She didn't even ask about the commotion outside during that one party because her kindness only extended as far as she could touch.
That's why Heiner's hatred ran as deep as his love for her. He believed she wouldn't have understood and he was right. I don't believe he wanted her to suffer per se, but he was miserable and one thing about misery is it claws on everything it touches and drags them down with it. She just happened to embody everything that put him in that situation (rich, aristocrat, handed everything at the expense of everyone else) Had she been the daughter of a common man, this would be an entirely different story. I'm not defending him, but he was right about the past Annette never understanding. That's just my point.
so you are saying SHE NEEDED HEINER TO PUNISH HER THOROUGHLY ENOUGH TO TRY SELF ELIMINATION TWICE AND FOR HER TO HAVE A MISCARRIAGE so as to be understanding of him better????
Are you saying that was the only way???
Why did he not just let her go??? break up with her and banish her out of his side???
BUT NO..
He kept her with him to make her a mocking stock for the whole empire...made her the scape goat for ALL THEIR TROUBLES ... and you're here somehow justifying that??????
Are you serious??? Really????
OMG!! May this kind of love find you then since its necessary for growth...
Wtf are you even saying omg... that's not what I'm talking about at all...
By cruelty and suffering I meant the war. Her being in the frontlines. Unsafe. On the receiving end of a gun. She still wouldn't have understood him after the divorce despite all of that she went through if she didn't decide to be a nurse, the one thing that she achieved without the help of the privileged life she was born into. I said I'm not justifying what he did, just that in that relationship it was inevitable because despite all his love she was still everything he hated in the world.
They're still characters of a fictional story, flawed and bound to be ugly. Stop projecting your morality into characters because it stops you from engaging with the story properly. Now you're wishing shit on strangers on the internet because you don't agree with them
My morality? Oh, I am sorry for having morality that is preventing me from burying myself in the sand and accepting this toxic relationship...
Yeah by wishing ill on others... get a grip and stop being weird. If stories like this one cause you to behave the way you do right now I think you're a bit young to be reading them in the first place.