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I just adore them. How both of them became green flags (with issues, but still). I just want to end it there ... because this quiet before the storm is stressing me that something is going to happen, really bad ╥﹏╥
I´m so lonely, I just want someone to hold me a be with me, feel loved. Alvways when I read romantic manhwa I just wan to be like the characters, but i don´t know how to find someone. I don´t want to push myself into dating, but i still want to love someone. I just really miss it. When I´m sitting in my room, or in pub with friends or just walking down the street ... there is this feeling I want to love. Really love. It doesn´t matter if it´s male or female, I just don´t know how to meet someone. I don´t like the way I look, I´m fat, but that doesn´t mean there isn´t anyone who would love me right? Any words and recommendations would make me happy :))
Wanna be my bae?
Same bruh
The easier part is work on your looks. I used not to really take care of myself but then I decided I need to work on my looks. I would say tho, it was a long rocky road where I did many mistakes that completely SHATTERED my confidence. With time, learned many things about self love and how not to be so hard on yourself. The 2 biggest tips I can give you are to embrace the features that you already have and learn how to maximize their potential, second one is dont aim to be something that you probably can’t be, that’ll ruin your confidence time after time.
I could write a whole paragraph about my journey but I’ll just say this, in order not to completely ruin yourself, please avoid social media and constant comparisons of yourself to others.
The harder part is changing your mindset and that’s something even I struggle a bit to do till this day. The mindset should be you’ll get it when you’re least expecting for it. I promise you, the moment you’ll stop obsessing over something, it’ll come and you’ll feel much less anxious. Trust me when I say stress could be your biggest enemy.
I would love to share much more with you because I’ve been through these struggles and while I still haven’t maintained it completely, I can say I know a thing or two and would love to be here to give advice or just listen when you need it.
Wish ya a lot of luck
Tbh… It just takes time to meet someone you vibe with. There’s not really a cheat code to dating.
But here’s a few things I learned.
Start with having an unshakable sense of self and confidence. When you are confident in who you are, you won’t try to change your personality for your partner. Which is reeeeaaaalllllyyy bad.
There will always be someone who finds you attractive, so if you make any changes do it for yourself.
Don’t get discouraged if you do get turned down by someone. Take it with grace and move on.
Spend time with your friends/fam so you are a little less lonely and don’t rush into something.
Reminder! Almost all depictions of romance are unrealistic, so don’t get disappointed in your future relationships. Dating someone is HARD work.
(=・ω・=) good luck!
Thank you for those words, it calms me down. I think I really have to work on self love first and work on my current abilities. Thank you <3
Stop yapping this is what you really need if u wanna find someone
1. Lose weight
2. Get off this site because it’s giving u unrealistic ideas about love
3. Find something better to do with ur live bcs ur pathetic if u wanna be held
ok ms. dating coach
I wouldn't say I'm pathetic. I just want someone who I care for give me a hug when I need it. Whats wrong about that?
I don’t know what’s up with her miserable attitude but ignore that, probably some tiktok addict that doesn’t have anything better to do than scrolling through questions on mangago while juggling a yaoi manga in the background
Girl bye i literally go to an ivy where do you go?
A lot is wrong abt that
Bro, who got u smilin like that? (づ￣ ³￣)づ