Well, I can understand your frustrations. I'll try to answer your questions according to my own experience. 1) I never wished to be a gay man personally, though I would find it interesting to experience being a man for some time. I see how hard it is to be gay today. 2) I don't particularly look down on fem man or woman characters, were it in ya......
There are a lot of answers here so I wouldn't be surprised if mine got lost in it all, but honestly, I'm kind of mad at how many people are saying fuck fujoshis for fetishizing gay men when all of us don't even do it. I don't even get anything sexually from reading yaoi mangas, in fact it's really annoying when I want to get back to the plot of the......
5 Question for fujoshis from a gay guy