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the whole story Ian been wanting out of this friends with benefits-ass relationship w TJ and gang life, but he can't bc he feels like he owes him and it's toxic asf.
and ppl in the comments be like omg but they have such good sex tgt, so they should STAY tgt..

HMMM golly, it's almost like it's a trauma bond relationship
high sexual/physical connection, relation goes through extreme highs and lows, partner gives in to avoid conflict, relationship feels like an addiction you feel powerless to quit. TEXTBOOK TRAUMA BOND