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I'm totally against dubious consent. The seme should be called out and hated for what he did with someone who was drunk. . But what's astonishing to me is that the same people who'd say ''Oh! What I love is an honest, slutty uke who knows what he want and that's no strings attached. You go boy!!", are ready to hate on the seme for being a 'fuckboy'. Really? I'd understand if he's trash because he went on with a dub-con, but no he's trash because he's a fboy? Isn't that just as much slut shaming as it is for any uke who sleeps around? And it's not like only the ukes whose seme's are fboys are shown as innocent virgins, many semes in stories with promiscuous ukes are also shown as innocent virgins (just that they are tops, so the bias about how pitiful they are is already taken away, lol) So, why the double standard? I've seen this recently, when it's the uke who's freely, willingly promiscuous, people support him and even cheer him onfor making choices but if it's the seme, just because he's arrogant about it, he's not even harming anyone or forcing them, even when he too is giving them a choice and making his own, he's treated as the ultimate "ou! Men are all trash like that". And no one would give any counter argument to those comments as in saying, "well, his life his choice. Or, You go boy!!. Bruh.
Well, I must clarify that I'm always against tops (promiscuous or not) who treat good, nice people (uke's) in a trashy way. But I'm also equally against someone who's a bottom but is doing the same. Just because someone has a sexual position of a top, it doesn't mean they don't feel hurt or are a 'macho' and should take anything. So many people who read yaoi want things like 'men can cry too' to be normalised but it seems like many of them only feel so for a bottom mc and not a top, who is only as much a man as the former.
Ok I'm not trying to fight with anyone, just stating some opinions that I gathered after reading the recent trends of bls.