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life’s not always perfect and people are messed up, sorry to be the one to tell that, but adults are pretty much fucked up, but this is how you overcome trauma, you can work it out to make it healthier in your life! therapy is not the answer to all the fucking matters in your life, it’s a way to learn how to make it better, to not affect you and people around you, and takamada is learning about consent and he really changed for good, Im LOVING to see how the author is dealing with it, his past is not erased because he still feel the trauma, and I know yu and him can make things work, together.
bdsm is not supposed to be abusive at all, you need to be conscious and make it safe for everyone involved, but RIGHT NOW this is how they’re dealing with it in a both consensual way, so to me is fine, I want to see where it will lead them to. And I would be happier if their both seeks for a therapist together, would be nice!