okay pause, I didn’t really like the end. I was expecting more I guess(?? to me it was just rushed, the author wanted to introduce something new as a plot twist, but to me was just confusing, this obsessive part of him never really showed up, not to mention that all that monologue during sex time was a huge turn off lol, they could’ve talked later , very disappointing ending it was always silly (and I loved it) but I expected a better outcome
life’s not always perfect and people are messed up, sorry to be the one to tell that, but adults are pretty much fucked up, but this is how you overcome trauma, you can work it out to make it healthier in your life! therapy is not the answer to all the fucking matters in your life, it’s a way to learn how to make it better, to not affect you and people around you, and takamada is learning about consent and he really changed for good, Im LOVING to see how the author is dealing with it, his past is not erased because he still feel the trauma, and I know yu and him can make things work, together.
bdsm is not supposed to be abusive at all, you need to be conscious and make it safe for everyone involved, but RIGHT NOW this is how they’re dealing with it in a both consensual way, so to me is fine, I want to see where it will lead them to. And I would be happier if their both seeks for a therapist together, would be nice!
okay hear me out, we know since the beginning that takamada is a very sexual guy (since he’s been harassing yu in many ways) but right now they’re vanilla cause they still kinda awkward(? about each other, BUT I strongly believe that their sexuality will be awaken again, when things settle down! and I can’t wait for them to explore their kinks together in a consensual way! that’s my ted talk of the day thanks for coming
Agreed. His sexual kinks and desires used to be expressed in terribly abusive ways, so he seems to be afraid that his only "healthy " option is to abstain completely from anything that's not the most basic sexual interaction. I really hope they manage to express themselves and their desires more honestly eventually, consensually explore things with each other and set boundaries where needed!
Omg the baby is so cute, I’m crying my eyes out I’m an uncle now! TT.TT