Tulsi pata's Things

So my tutor and I was discussing about what time he wil come to my home to tutor me. I told him he can come at 9-10 am. Then I was talking to myself that my dad is gonna be home at that time so it’s ok. Then he asked me why cant he can tutor me if I'm alone. I told him for safety reason. Then he got really upset. I told him I didn’t mean it like that and said I'm sorry if it hurt his feelings. Then he was silent for a long time. ( He is very talkative and It was super akward) Then he told me I think too negatively and he was hurt. Then he was going on about how long we know each other. I said he taught me for like 2 years.. He said It’s the way I said it I was too straight forward.
It’s kinda weird because like I'm a teenage girl so it’s obvious that a person who is not related to me can't enter the house when I'm home alone.. It is a ridiculous question why he can't tutor me when I'm alone. Then he gets upset when I tell him it’s for safety. And tells me I'm too negative. Like no I'm not.. I already experienced men being absolute creeps..
Whould you be upset if you were in my tutor's place? I don’t get what I did wrong, he looked really sad when he left so..

Today, I brought a cat from the streets.My family has problem with the cat. My sil has cat phobia she locked herself in her room and my brother is obviously very angry with me. I didn’t know she hated cats. But like I keep the cat in my room, It's not going anywhere near her.. anyway my parents told me I can't keep the cat to keep peace in the family. I always wanted a cat but after bringing the cat home I realize how much effort I need to put in it. I have to give it attention 24/7 or else it starts to chew on itself, which stresses me out. I'm afraid I will neglect it because I'm already have so much going on.. Then I saw it playing with rouches which triggered my past ocd symptom. I'm kind of disgusted that It goes to many dirty places.. But I also want a cat even if it stresses me out..The cat already follow me around and I will be sad if I lose it.. So should I put it for adoption??