this ass of an mc is painting actual bdsm and people who practice it completely sane and consensual in a bad light, i don't know if author gen thinks they ate w this explanation bcs it just made things worse for me bcs if he rlly did enjoy bdsm since he was 23 or smthng he should have known better than not explain everything FIRST AND FOREMOST to a clearly inexperienced person, his little tangent did not rlly clear up anything except proving that he's rlly just an abusive fucked in the head power tripping person lmfao