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One thing I've realized about loving someone is that you become twisted the longer you stay in a one-sided relationship. You can love someone, but you can't force them to like you back. If you continue to have feelings for that person, you should be prepared to get hurt, as there's a slim chance of those feelings being reciprocated, especially if the other person has already rejected you, either directly or indirectly. Additionally, you can't change someone else's preferences (unless they like you so much that they compromise), and, ultimately, things happen for a reason. You deserve someone who will not use you just to get back with their former lover.

(Side note: I also don’t understand having feelings for someone who likes your sibling, relative or close friend. It turns me off and makes me feel like someone’s second choice.) it hurts my pride (╯°Д °)╯╧╧ am i easy ha?!