I can’t seem to describe how awful this whole story makes me feel inside, so I’m saying this for fair warning. It’s only about rape and there has yet to be any positive character development, so don’t read if you hope for that. Anybody who wants to compare this to BDSM should actually learn about what BDSM entails (Hint: CONSENT, even in “rape play”). I’m really glad that there are people here that understand that. (づ￣ ³￣)づ
I’m guessing most people here are straight women who wouldn’t know what it’s like to be gay in a homophobic and patriarchal society.
I’m going to mostly just try to give some context based off what I’ve read so far. So while it can definitely hurt your partner to be so defensive about being in a same-sex relationship, I feel many need to understand the situation many couples are put in. Losing your job is a big deal, your family disowning you can be a big deal, discrimination is a big problem. So while I think they should still move on and come to terms with their current reality, I don’t understand why all these people are getting this upset at the sunbae.
I’m just going to speculate here, but it seems the ex wasn’t ready to fully address the relationship publicly (and don’t shame people for coming out at their own pace). While I understand this has really hurt Yoon, I’m not necessarily mad at the ex, so far. I feel he has come back because he feels (possibly) more confident about his sexuality and the reason he broke it off last time, and why Yoon was unsatisfied, was because he wasn’t. So I can understand why he may come back to see if it’s possible to get back together. When he asks “who is that?” I feel he is trying to gage what the current situation is. I going to hope they can both move on because Yoon and his current relationship feels strong. I also hope the ex doesn’t try to “start shit” over this.
P.S I haven’t read the raws so I am unsure of the ex’s full story, I’m only going off these chapters
yes! louder for the people in the back! i was so upset reading about the hate comments towards the sunbae. to me it feels like he wasnt ready to fully commit to a relationship with yoon, and broke it off to prevent yoon from becoming even more hurt! now that yoon has moved on - which he of course doesnt know yet - he tried to reach ot to him again, since the sunbae i believe still holds yoon close to his heart, i suppose, he wanted to start over now that he is ready for the commitment. I also want to mention that i didn’t read the raws, but this is my opinion at the moment.
PREACCHH. I actually hate the sunbae at first but after reading this my opinion about him changes.
I love how I can learn good things from strangers. Thank you for the enlightenment..
Thank you for giving your opinion and thoughts.
In my opinion they are 100% correct. And I respect it.