
siwoon is very naive, i love him, but how can you not see that you have the evil in front of your eyes. I like how he tries to see the good in people but this just frustrates me

Sad to say Siwon is afraid that being gay will ruin his life and he was just romanticizing his relationship with Jinha and taking it for granted. In South Korea being gay would lead you to a lot of trouble, however Siwon should grow balls and accept the harsh reality instead of just spacing in uke his troubles and start taking resposiblility.
Alex deal prob is just that he can´t process love or affection, he likes the attention but sincere love and appreciation may be something totally new for him, and our little bun may give him that