forreal asked a question

Looking for manga where either
1. Dark haired seme was r@ped as a child or otherwise
2. Dark haired male character in other genre was r@ped as a child
3. Dark haired seme who was an uke before

Although r@pe is r@pe, I am looking for male on male where DARK haired seme/male character was bottom. and not reverse rape or with female.

I am ONLY looking for manga with above cases pertaining to DARK haired person.

I already have

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/sakura_gari/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/soine_lovers/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/yondaime_ooyamato_tatsuyuki/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/yuigon/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/puppy_play_with_papa/uu/br_chapter-104972/pg-39/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/shounen_to_kamikakushi/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kyouai_shinri_paradox/

Others
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/totally_captivated/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/mumyoutou/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/neji_no_kaiten/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/life_ain_t_so_bad/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/skin_asada_nemui/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/my_k_kun/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_boss_conditions/

Feeling pretty messed by up right now. Just found that seme from Gift was actually r@ped by his brother and father just because he has light hair and eyes. Adding this to all the other cases where where light haired people were r@ped as children.. What are authors exactly trying to imply. This is just plain Racial Domination and disgusting fetishism.

https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/14315920/
https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/14613432/

forreal created a topic of We Aren't Secure

Trigger Warning: Child Abuse

So nobody but Motoki saw you as you and not just an alpha.. and how do you respond to that? By colluding with some guys to attack Motoki, put him in danger, made everything look like a coincidence, earn sympathy, then rape him and then basically talk to others as if it was his fault for being an omega. WOW! YOU JUST BROKE HIS TRUST. Just because you love him. Why not, I don't know confess like a normal person, where he might actually reciprocate your feelings.

And Motoki was just upset for maybe 10 panels and then he forgives him.. Like how.. Not only that but actively pursues him.. Like why..

Why do I even try to find logic in these. ヽ(`Д´)ノ

forreal created a topic of Kotaete My Drifter

Trigger Warning (Ch 5 and 6) : Child Rape, Child Prostitution, Racial Rape

This was just plain DISGUSTING. I wish I did not read this. Though I like Robert's resolve to save his friend.

Given the fact that majority of the time in BL the light haired person would be the uke or a seme who was raped as a child or seme turned uke, I always had the conviction that it was majorly due to racial domination (other reason being racial fetishism). Why else would these manga have such a huge amount of light haired people when Chinese, Japanese and Korean have predominantly black/dark hair.
I see the same pattern in Shonen and hetero manga too. Characters from other genre like Nakago, Aois Trancy, Mcgillis Fareed, Jugram from Bleach (heavily implied) are some of the blond characters who were abused/raped as children. I hardly see this happening to dark haired counter parts (not saying it doesn't happen but it's very minute).

Let's not forget about manga with light haired ukes, which constitutes of 80 to 90% BL. It's a widely accepted fact that most have r@pe. So we can safely infer that 80 to 90 % of those r@pe victims are again light haired characters.

This manga further strengths my conviction about Racial domination being passed off as normal in these manga.

Disclaimer : This is my opinion and people do not have to agree to this and I am sure no one would.

Edit -
1. Wow! There is actually a person who agrees with me. This is not me doubting my view, but genuine surprise.
2. Also for the people who disagree, Kindly provide names of manga where DARK haired seme or male characters from other genre were r@ped as a child. Although r@pe is r@pe, I am talking about male on male with seme being the bottom at that time.

forreal created a topic of Drunk in Love

Me reading the latest chapter - Good that Juhan changed for the better...
Me re-reading from the start - This just pisses me off.. He Gu deserves better. Just leave the guy

forreal asked a question

So I recently received a note from someone regarding the comments I made about Light haired person most probably being the uke in BL. They obviously disagreed saying that it's not true and there are plenty of manga with are dark haired ukes.

While I agree that there are manga with dark haired ukes, these are far few in comparison with manga with light haired ukes. Based on what I have seen so far and I have read a lot, 8 to 9 out of 10 manga have light haired uke.

What do you think about this? Do you agree or disagree and why.

forreal created a topic of 99.99% Lovers

Trigger Warning : Drugged and Raped, Forced Pregnancy

What the hell. Hwan actually drugged Haejin, forcing him into an induced heat and making him pregnant. This just pisses me off. I hope they don't end up together.. but unfortunately that would be the case :( At the very least don't forgive him so easily

All I can think about is.... If Juwon is working for so many teams already and he is assigned with work of another person from different team.. Why doesn't he switch jobs?

I understand that overwork and no work life balance is a thing in Asian countries, but you can only go on for so long....

Even deifying other stereotypes like height etc, WHY THE HELL DO authors never defy the BLOND UKE stereotype.

SICK OF THIS stupidity already. Why the hell is the blond almost always (LIKE 90% of the time) a uke. WHEN in doubt BLOND is the uke.