
Real talk tho, how hard is it to just break up with another person if you’re cheating/feel like you’re gonna cheat?? Like, if you feel like you’re gonna cheat and are tempted to cheat, then at that point I’d say it’s game over for the relationship and its better for both sides to just break it off. Whether or not the person being cheated on is an asshole or not, just break it off. (Unless ofc the cheater is in an abusive/complicated relationship where it’s not that simple to just break it off and they can’t just leave without putting themselves in danger or something)
I think people who cheats, don't want to quit the partner that do loves them because it satisfied their ego knowing that there is always a person waiting for them, it's kinda like they are going to cheat and when they don't feel like cheating anymore they know they can keep it undercover and stay with the person they're cheating on, most of the times they put theirselves with someone that they do love emotional but not physically and cheats on them to satisfy the physical part which is fucked up, but I'm not a cheater so I don't know what goes to their brain, I heard some of them says that's it's the other person fault that they cheat because something the relation not being interesting anymore but it's kind of a narcissism behavior, soo yeah they just take the relationship for granted most of the time...
Mhm that makes sense. I had (key word “had”) a close friend who proudly confessed to cheating on their bf. She said something along the lines of her bf “just wasn’t manly enough” or “not putting in enough effort” for her. Which, okay, if he wasn’t putting in the effort into the relationship, then I get why she would want to break up with him and she’s allowed to feel that way. But she didn’t break up with him and instead CHEATED on him then broke up with him a month or so after the fact. Which i suppose is better than staying with him for years after cheating, but the point is, she didnt HAVE to cheat on him at all if she just broke it off before she made that decision. Either way, I completely reevaluated my friendship with her and that completely changed my view of her and cut myself out of that friendship since I felt like I couldn’t see her the same way anymore. So, yeah, like you mentioned, that excuse of it being their partners fault is definitely something a lot of cheaters use and is in my opinion absolutely egregious behavior .
Looking for a bl/shounen ai (tbh not sure but it was boys love). The setting was in high school, pretty sure they were in korean. The uke had dark hair, was the “smart” or “model” student. The seme is blonde, has a drunk and abusive dad. The uke witnesses the seme being beat by his dad one day, the uke “ignores” the seme. The uke’s dad is a film director and the seme likes the films the ukes dad makes. Later on, the seme and his “friend” group get in trouble for something and everyone blames the seme for bullying ppl, but the uke doesnt agree with them bcuz the uke and seme were hanging out watching movies or somehing. I’ve looked through my entire list and couldnt find it, idk how maybe it got deleted/new title on here?
Does anyone know this one manga that was adapted from a video game? To be specific, the game it was based on was very similar to games like mad father, ib, and the witches house. It was a pixel-horror game set in a cursed forest. It’s not the angel of death. There were two main playable characters, a girl wearing a yellow shirt and a boy in a black Japanese school uniform. If i recall correctly, the forest was cursed with the souls of children and there were these blue stones that could ward the evil spirits in the forest off? The main guy also had a katana that was made out of those blue stones. I think the main girl had memory loss or she was forced to lose some part of her memories by someone in order to protect her and dissuade her from ever going back into the cursed forest? The true ending in the game was actually very wholesome and a nice change of pace compared to games that were similar to it like mad father and such so it always had a special place in my heart for that. I remember the story but i cant remember the title at all and its driving me crazy.
I mean. So like how does dan even react to that? Lmao, my dumbass would be so confused on what the hell is going on. Kinda wish he was eating some ice cream and casually asking him that, would’ve been funny cause I read his last line in a really confused and sassy tone though I know dan was probably saying it in a polite tone